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This is the blog of a heartbroken foster parent who fell in love with, wanted to adopt and ultimately had to give the kid back to the real mother, who I would imagine jumped through all the hoops although that's just not good enough for the foster mother, otherwise known as "Mommy Rebecca" which is a clear indication of a parental alienation attempt, IMHO.
This is an outrage I tell ya!!! It is an injustice!!! How can those incompetent workers give the kid back when the kid had the foster mother who fell in love with her and wanted to adopt so badly?
The poor thing.
Boo hoo. Waaaaaaaa.
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She would really appreciate your sympathy, as you all know how devastating it is for a foster parent to have to give a kid back to one of us horrible real parents. Read some of the earlier posts, and you will see that she has been wallowing in self pity for a while now.
Perhaps we should refer her to the foster shrink. I don't know.
How can they do this to her? She loved that kid like it was her own.
And please be sure to read all the comments. You may find them somewhat revealing as to how easily some of these people are misled when only hearing one side of the story.
So many people are truly suckers for a sob story.
Know thy enemy. Know how they think.
I for one would think we should be celebrating this kids return home.
I left comments for her, and of course, she deleted them. Then posted a new self-righteous message which did little but support everything I said. Here's a copy:
ReplyDeleteIn response to http://fosterhood.tumblr.com/post/4135616710/4-hours-until-the-hardest-24-hours-of-my-life
"Yeah, gosh, her mom sounds "totally crazy" for having an emotional outburst. I mean, what's she so upset about? It's not like she had her child taken away—OH WAIT! That's right! I remember now, didn't she sort of, kind of have her f*cking family ripped apart, and now she's dealing with her own transition as well as her child's? All while under the scrutiny of the state, and trying to accommodate the self-righteous snobbery of her daughter's foster care provider's hurt feelings? Gee, she sounds awful! She should learn to be better about repressing her feelings for the sake of onlookers! She should be less traumatized by all of this and think of YOUR needs!
If you weren't so wrapped up in grieving the "loss" of something that was never yours, you would be happy (albeit bittersweet) that a CHILD is once again with her MOTHER. You will never, ever be her mother. You will never be any foster child's mother, and no foster child will ever replace their mother with you—no matter how many cute dresses and neat activities you provide. I'm not saying this to hurt you, I'm saying this because you've lost touch with reality if you don't realize how egregiously self-involved you sound. This is far more than "melodramatic". It's like you have zero empathy whatsoever for this little girl whom you claim to love. Or worse, that you have no respect for her heart, and certainly none for her family.
It's obvious you're not a parent. It's people like you who create overzealous caseworkers who so harshly judge families for needing help. Who are you to criticize her mother's behavior? Stop being such a snob. "Jacket" doesn't judge her mother's emotions or social skills, nor her own relationship with her mother, and neither should you. Did you get to read any psych evals, police reports, or any other material evident of this woman's inferiority to you or your style of temporary parenting? See any case pictures? Have you pondered every bit and scrap from her case? No, you haven't—it's confidential. You know only what you have seen of her mother, which is very little from what I gather, and what you have heard from the people who (coincidentally) split the family apart. You don't seem totally stupid, so I urge you to consider that you don't know (and will never know) enough of 'the story' to make these kind of statements without looking like an whiny, judgmental white girl who didn't get what she wanted."