Legally Kidnapped

Shattering Your Child Welfare Delusions Since 2007

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

CHILD ‘PROTECTIVE’ SERVICES DESTROYED MY FAMILY (sent in an email by the author)

Each child in your family has a 1 in 25 chance of being the subject of a child abuse/neglect investigation this year. The chance of getting a flat tire on the family car is 1 in 70 (including Firestones).

Many children are taken from fit and loving parents solely based upon false allegations reported anonymously to a hotline, or as a result of a caseworker’s own personal judgment, or even by someone with a vendetta as in our case.

The State gains entry into private homes following the filing of a report of suspected child maltreatment. This report may be filed anonymously by anyone: a vindictive neighbor, a teacher, a day care provider, or an unstable busybody. You can lose your children from an anonymous phone call, with NO involvement from law enforcement, and NO charges of any wrong-doing. CPS controls the courtroom and employs the tactic of delay and “hide the ball” to keep families separated. This can go on for months and even years while children are separated from their families.

Actual acts of child abuse or severe neglect are not the primary allegations used to seize children from their families, meaning deliberate acts, willfully committed with the intent to harm - contrary to public assumption. CPS employs a method known as the "Clinical Model", in which the behaviors of the child are used to claim that there is some sort of obscure psychological abuse in the home that has traumatized the child.

“Child protection is one of the biggest businesses in the country. We spend $12 billion a year on it. The money goes to tens of thousands of state employees, collateral professionals such as lawyers, court personnel, court investigators, evaluators and guardians, judges, and CPS contracted vendors such as counselors, therapists, more evaluators, junk psychologists, residential facilities, foster parents, adoptive parents, MSPCC, Big Brothers/Big Sisters, YMCA, etc.”

Nev Moore, Founder of Justice for Families.

Service providers, called vendors, hold multi-million dollar contracts with CPS. Families are ordered to engage in "services" with these contracted vendors, all of whom bill Medicaid at enormously inflated rates for "services" that are often inappropriate, unnecessary, and completely irrelevant to the families situation, or to child maltreatment.

Behind the money is the socialist ideology that children should be raised by the state. This agenda was promoted by Dr. C. Henry Kempe (author of the Battered Child Syndrome) in the 1970's. An open supporter of the Communist party, he stated "We must remove children from the crude influence of their families and, frankly, nationalize them." Dr. Kempe emphasized the need for a "stealthy, incremental approach" to implementing the agenda to make families obsolete.

Families are coerced into participating by intimidation and the threat of losing their children. In return for fraudulently collected profits, the contracted vendors provide manufactured "evidence" of child maltreatment to support the claim that they need to keep the child in foster care. In return for this they receive more federal funding. Now this is truly job security.

Nothing in our life experience is more devastating than the abrupt, brutal, and
unwarranted forced separation by strangers. The parent-child bond is our strongest instinct, superceding all else. To have this bond severed by state agents who possess unhindered power, and give no thought or consideration to the fear, anxiety, and trauma that their actions cause, is a crime against humanity. This is happening to 4,600 children per day, right here in the United States of America.

The law states that a child can only be removed from their home as a last resort, and only when the child is at imminent risk of serious harm, but CPS does not follow established law and policy, and nobody makes them.

I home schooled 7 children and raised them in the Christian faith. My middle daughter (then 19 years old) walked across the street in January 2006 and told the neighbors that she was sexually molested with power tools, beaten with crow bars and burned alive. This all supposedly took place between the ages of 8 to 16 years. Never mind that there is no physical evidence of any of this (because it never happened). Not one of these neighbors bothered to come to my door to ask me if these things were true. My husband was arrested but subsequently released on bond.

The “protective” order drafted by this daughter disarmed us for 2 years. We live out in the country where predators threaten our livestock. None of us has ever pointed a gun at a human being, yet, this daughter “dreamed” that her father pointed a shotgun at the family and told them to get on the floor or he would kill us all. She later mentioned that the dream seemed “so real”. Yes, it was real enough to make sure we wouldn’t even be allowed to have ONE bullet in the home without fear of arrest.

My 2 youngest were taken away from me without a court order. CPS just walked in…and took them—NOTHING was done to keep them in the home. REMOVAL was the first and only choice of CPS. The law states that a child can only be removed from their home as a LAST resort, and only when the child is at imminent risk of serious harm. Removal of my two daughters, non-abused children, from their home was perceived by them to be an act of emotional and psychological terrorism. CPS does not follow established law and policy. They face no consequences for their illegal behavior. Law enforcement routinely submits to the whims of social workers as they did in our case as they accompanied CPS into the home and told everyone to get out of the house so CPS could “interview” me.

State and federally funded Child Protective Service agencies are seizing children from non-abusive homes in the absence of evidence or realistic cause to believe that the child is in danger of harm, an act of emotional and psychological terrorism, and CPS does not follow established law and policy. State and Federal regulations, and the Constitution of the United States. Children failed by the system have died while in the protective custody of the State, in the care of CPS and in foster care.

Normal, innocent people do not tend to be suspicious and defensive, so they usually cooperate when social workers knock on their door. This mother offered no resistance believing that truth and justice would prevail and that we had done nothing illegal and therefore had nothing to hide. Citizens should NOT be removed from their homes and family members based on nothing more than hearsay.

Federal statistics say that there are approximately 3 million reports of suspected child abuse and neglect each year. The U.S. Department of Health & Human Services documents 900,000 as "substantiated", leaving over 2 million families per year FALSELY ACCUSED. Of the "substantiated" cases, 68% do NOT involve child maltreatment, according to the federal authorities. This figure is escalating at an alarming rate each year as over zealous reporting and frivolous intervention by CPS spins out of control.

Here in Texas, we have a similar rate of unsubstantiated cases of child abuse. “In 76.4 percent of investigations, investigative caseworkers either rule out abuse or neglect, or are unable to determine whether it occurred.” (Protecting Texas Children, Health and Human Services Commission, CPS Reform Recommendations 1.5 Screen Out Unnecessary 22 January 6, 2005)

The case dragged on with my 19 year old feeding CPS all kinds of lies...and they believed her. I asked this daughter HOW did she come up with these horrifying events that she told the authorities about. She responded that she did research on the internet and read case histories of sexual abuse. Then she said she “fantasized about it” to “make it more real…more believable”. Well, her lies, fantasies and dreams destroyed our lives. And she has been rewarded for it as well. She is going to school to become a social worker so she can join the ranks of CPS and “save abused children”: her words, not mine.

This daughter even perjured herself multiple times during our trial but there were NO consequences. There were also NO consequences when she failed to show up for the final day of our trial, even though she was under a subpoena. A legal system that tolerates perjury and the subornation of perjury can NOT produce justice.

Judges should not blindly go along with CPS and allow them to control court process, but fulfill their judicial canons by insisting that due process is followed, laws adhered to, and that procedural error is not tolerated. Parents are subjected to a highly irregular "civil" proceeding that makes a complete mockery of our judicial system. They are often told they may not speak or present exculpatory evidence as we tried to at the June 21, 2006 hearing regarding anonymous e-mails sent to our CPS caseworker.

The case degenerated into an exercise in character assassination and slander by neighbors who we have never met. Actual acts of child abuse or neglect that place the child at "imminent risk of serious harm" were not even discussed. Vague, obscure, and distorted allegations about our personalities and hearsay comprised the bulk of the “evidence”, including our "being in denial" and "anger problems".

Our family was put under a powerful, and distorted, microscope. Social workers asked bizarre and invasive questions. We were asked whether or not we had “explosives and missile launchers”, whether I intended to “run the pick up truck thru the public school, kidnap my daughters and take them to New Mexico and drink poisoned Kool-Aid and commit suicide”. One neighbor that we’ve never met, even wrote on a police statement that I come from a long line of devil worshippers. Perhaps this is why I was asked by the prosecuting attorney for CPS during the trial on the merits in June 2007, “did you ever drink blood?” I’d laugh my head off if this weren’t so serious…but unfortunately TRUE!

Under the CPS microscope every word, inflection, and action is attributed with the most bizarre and outlandish "meanings." If you have ever bounced a check, you have a "criminal record"; if your child is shy, they are "fearful and withdrawn"; if they are outgoing and active, they are "acting out due to the trauma."

Do the parents ever argue? Do they ever raise their voices? This is then documented as "domestic violence." The majority of the funding for domestic violence programs is channeled through CPS so this was no revelation to us. If parents deny domestic abuse or child abuse, they are told that they are "in denial", and this is all "part of the syndrome." Admitting - confessing - is one of the requirements. Truth and reality are not important. Saying the right things to keep federal funding flowing, is.

Federal law gives CPS 15 months to seek Termination of Parental Rights and have the child adopted out (and collect hefty adoption incentive bonuses—did we mention the money?) So, children are being put up for adoption based on the timeline, even when parents have not had a chance to answer the initial allegations, and in the absence of any evidence or charges that they have harmed their child. Social workers routinely perjure themselves under oath without ever facing any penalties or admonishment.

Meanwhile, children who have been removed from their grieving families are placed in state contracted foster homes and institutions which receive federal benefits. Residentials and other institutions hold multi-million dollar contracts with the social service agencies. Children are drugged, restrained, put in straight-jackets, some are sexually, physically, and emotionally abused. In Texas, 12,000 foster youth received psychotropic drugs in 2004. Each child averaged 21 psychotropic drug prescriptions a year. ALL are tormented by a system out of control.

One of my daughters CPS took from me "aged out" and returned home in April 2007. At one minute after midnight on her 18th birthday, we gratefully received her back into our arms. No one from CPS came out to our house to make sure it was “safe” for her to return. The day before she turned 18, she wasn’t even allowed to receive a phone call from us. The day after she turned 18, none of them cared. They don’t care because the Federal funding ceased when she turned 18. My 15 year old is not allowed to receive or make phone calls to us either. I am “allowed” a one hour a week, heavily supervised (by CPS) visit. She is not allowed contact with her brothers and sisters at all with the exception of the sister that was abducted along with her (the one that returned home to us recently) back in January 2006.

If social workers “care” so much for children, I have 2 questions for them:
1. Would you work without pay and sacrifice for the child? I did. No one paid me to be a mother, to carry the child for 9 months under my heart, to be there many sleepless nights when they had teething pain or were sick, prayed for them, taught them right from wrong, fed them, clothed them, educated them, gave up my time, and put off buying things for myself because I always put them first, just to name a few things that come to mind.

2. If a life-or- death situation arose, would you give your life for the child? I would. No questions asked.

Which of us REALLY has the “best interests of the child” at heart: parents or Social Services?

The financial incentives for shredding families, warehousing children until the barriers to adoption (parents) can be eliminated and children adopted out, are lucrative. CPS is part of a $12. billion dollar a year, tax payer fueled, child abuse industrial complex which provides jobs for caseworkers, judges, lawyers, bailiffs, various court personnel, psychotherapists, foster homes, pharmaceutical vendors and a host of others.

This is a HUGE growth industry that provides private profit through Medicaid. Service providers (vendors) hold multi-million dollar contracts with the social service agencies. Families are ordered to engage in "services" with the contracted vendors, all of whom bill Medicaid at inflated rates for "services" that are often inappropriate, unnecessary, onerous, and completely irrelevant (not to mention unconstitutional) to the families situation, or to child maltreatment.
This writer is 57 years old and has been married to the same man (the biological father of our 7 children) for 32 years. I am a registered nurse, do not drink, smoke, never did drugs, don’t even have a traffic ticket. I have never abused my children nor has my husband sexually molested any of my children. My husband has worked for the State of Texas since 1979. WHY is this happening to us?

Do you, dear reader, have any idea WHAT it feels like to have a child taken away for NO reason? Can you imagine the pain and anguish that comes in unrelenting waves as you try to figure out why this is happening? How would you like to be falsely accused of child abuse with your name smeared all over public records for horrific events that NEVER OCCURRED? What would it feel like to have your reputation destroyed? How would you like it if neighbors driving by your house slowed down and stared…and took pictures of your house? And every time you walk in the gas station or the feed store where the ranchers gather for coffee, they suddenly stop talking and stare at you? Did it ever occur to any of you to come to my door and ASK me if these things were true? Or was it more fun to gossip and believe the madness because it’s more exciting than reality? Now, we’re just collateral damage in the war against children, just another family chewed up and spit out by the State.

Families are coerced into participating by intimidation and the threat of losing their children. In return for these fraudulently collected profits, the contracted vendors provide manufactured "evidence" of child maltreatment to support CPS claims that they need to keep the child in foster care. In return for this they receive more federal funding. Now this is truly job security.

On May 21, 2007 the CPS trial on the merits began in the Caldwell County Judicial Center in Lockhart, Texas. It consisted of 6 days of persecution and mockery of my lifestyle and personal beliefs and made a complete travesty of our judicial system. Their “evidence” consisted of hearsay and e-mails allegedly authored by my 19 year old daughter. Constitutional violations were rampant throughout this ordeal.

The Guardian Ad Litem testified that it wasn’t “safe” for my 15 year old to return home “(even if the father were removed)” because she would “suffer thru abuse rather than report it”—“even if she continued going to public school because when she got back home, her mother would deprogram her.” WHAT abuse? “DEPROGRAM”? Does CPS normally “deprogram” it’s victims by telling them—as they told my daughters-- “your mother doesn’t love you”, “she abandoned you”, “your mother chose her husband over you”, “it’s all because of your parents that you are here in this emergency shelter now”, “your parents aren’t cooperating, it’s not our fault you are here”, “why don’t you pray to your God—see if He will answer your prayers and get you out of this place.” Your tax dollars at work. . .

Harvard psychiatrist Chester M. Pierce stated that "Every child in America entering school at the age of 5 is mentally ill because he comes to school with certain allegiances to our founding fathers, toward our elected officials, toward his parents, toward a belief in a supernatural being, and toward the sovereignty of this nation as a separate entity. It's up to you as teachers to make all these sick children well by creating the international child of the future." I guess the State of Texas and the public schools are just “making my sick daughter well”.

We USED to be Christian home schoolers. Evidently, the State of Texas has a resocialization program underway to destroy my daughter’s belief system since it’s a crime to be a Christian and to home school. It is socialist ideology that children should be raised by the State. Dr. C. Henry Kempe, author of the Battered Child Syndrome and an open supporter of the Communist party stated: "We must remove children from the crude influence of their families and, frankly, nationalize them."

On June 26, 2007, after 6 days of "trial", I was adjudicated as an unfit mother in spite of NO evidence of abuse and with the civil court’s full knowledge that “the criminal charges against my husband (which were fabricated by my 19 year old daughter) would be dismissed any day now because of lack of evidence”. Indeed, criminal charges WERE conveniently dismissed June 28, 2007--2 days AFTER CPS court rendered their decision. This is CYA (cover your afterburner) in operation. As of this writing, we are appealing to the Third District Court in Austin, Texas. SOMEBODY in this universe needs to investigate the corruption going on in CPS.

My youngest child (who will be 16 years old in February 2008) will remain in permanent managing conservatorship of the State and continue to reside in foster care against her will and despite her telling the judge, Guardian Ad Litem and all the rest of these people--on multiple occasions since her wrongful abduction by State actors known as CPS on January 11, 2006, --that she was never abused and just wants to return home. It doesn't matter how many times you tell CPS there was no abuse, they just tell you that you are in "denial" and "not cooperating". Children should NOT be held as indentured servants or held in thrall to others for acts they have not committed.

My daughter in CPS custody has not been allowed to see her brothers and sisters since their visits were cut off during a court hearing in February 2007. Before that, they were allowed a one hour a week visit. No phone calls were ever permitted and still are not to this day. We tried to get permission to have some phone contact with her but the Judge denied it again as recently as August 1, 2007. The reason the siblings’ visits were cut off was that the CPS caseworker told the court that 2 of the siblings were passing notes to my daughter. Yes, my son passed her a $20. Federal Reserve note because she needed money to buy school supplies and clothes for school. Evidently, Caldwell County doesn’t have enough money to buy what she needs. When we home schooled, there was always food, clothes and supplies for the children.

My husband is not allowed to have a visit with our daughter (in CPS custody) because he refuses to take sex offender therapy. He refuses to take it because he is not a sex offender. In retaliation for not cooperating with the court, the Judge is punishing him by cutting off his visits. CPS has gone above and beyond to punish us. The weekly one hour visit is held at CiCi’s Pizza, a highly public area next to the Army, Navy and Air Force Recruiting Stations. Apparently, the Judge thinks that my husband may leap over the pepperonis and molest our daughter, with a CPS agent sitting right next to us and 3 branches of America’s finest next door. He is however, allowed to be around my 15 year old grandson (same age as my daughter). The only difference between them is…my grandson was not incarcerated by CPS and pimped out to obtain federal funds.
After our trial, the Judge said that “REGARDLESS of the outcome of the criminal case, my husband has to take sex offender therapy” and our daughter can’t come back home unless recommended by THEIR CPS contracted, bought and paid for, psychologist. We tried to offer another expert opinion to testify that it was safe for her to come home, but the Judge practically RAN him out of the court room. They don’t want to hear anything that doesn’t agree with their paradigm. They certainly aren’t interested in the truth. Citizens should NOT be censured by public officials for crimes they have not committed.

I’d like to know how Caldwell County even GOT an indictment in the first place. All the so called “evidence” is whatever my daughter told them. There is no physical evidence of “sexual molesting with power tools, beatings with crowbars and burning in the fireplace”…. BECAUSE IT NEVER HAPPENED. My husband’s criminal lawyer told us the “grand jury rubber stamps indictments presented to them by the District Attorney”. Maybe that’s why this D.A. was voted out of office and replaced in January 2007. This former D.A. indicted several people during the same time span (that my husband was indicted) that also never should have been indicted. One particular, well known individual that comes to mind, put an ad in the Luling Newsboy newspaper apprising the people of Caldwell County that his charges were dropped by the D.A.’s office.

My husband and I took all the court ordered parenting classes required by the State of Texas and attended weekly psychotherapy sessions thru CPS contracted vendors. These sessions consist of nothing more than coercive persuasion designed to interrogate, break down your will and cause you to believe the unbelievable. In the end, it’s all for nothing. CPS tells you that you’re “in denial” and being “uncooperative”. It feels more like Nazi Germany and the Soviet gulags every day.

Think I’m being too harsh comparing CPS to Nazis? Homeschooling was a basis for child endangerment charges under Hitler. The German High Court (Hamburg) ruled in 1936 that "Custody rights shall be terminated for parents who, as fanatical Bible students, cannot rear their children in accordance with today's State and because this endangers the mental wellbeing of the children, who are thereby prevented from participating in the national community."

CPS routinely employs unconstitutional actions, fraud, extortion, deceit, kidnapping, and conspiracy in an ongoing criminal enterprise designed to cheat the public and destroy families of the United States of America for profit, for agrandizement and to delude the public into thinking their actions are for the general welfare of this nation. Unconstitutional summary judicial proceedings designed to perpetrate for-profit crimes against humanity, family dismemberment and human trafficking, and to defraud the Federal Government for Social Services Agency operational funds have been perpetrated upon many families in America.

Child Protective Services, in taking children who do not meet the statutory definition of abuse or neglect from loving homes is creating more throwaway children than they are legitimately saving. CPS actors merely decide that children are “at risk” and that abuse or neglect may occur in the FUTURE. These are POLICE STATE TACTICS that are routinely deployed against citizens of totalitarian regimes. What happened to due process? What happened to the Constitution of the United States of America? Where is the Bill of Rights? Dismembering families and creating artificial orphans by means of fraud and/or deceptive trade practices is NOT legitimate government business.

CPS engages in for-profit crimes against humanity consequent to the unlawful dismemberment of families to create human trafficking victims from which the County earns Federal funds with which to fund it’s operations. The exploitation of men, women and children for financial gain is the definition of human trafficking, which the U.S. Secretary of State Condolleza Rice states is a modern day form of slavery.

Texas Department of Family and Protective Services, in Fiscal 2003, 30 foster children died in our state's care; in Fiscal 2004, 38 foster children died; and in Fiscal 2005, 48 foster children died. Data shows that while the number of foster children in our state's care increased 24 percent from 26,133 in Fiscal 2003 to 32,474 in Fiscal 2005, the number of deaths increased 60 percent.
Comptroller Carole Keeton Strayhorn Statement On Foster Care Abuse given Friday, June 23, 2006 in Austin, Texas

DFPS statistics themselves underscore the fact that my 15 year old daughter is in FAR GREATER DANGER in the custody of CPS than she is in the care of her falsely accused biological parents. The State of California published the following statement: called the “perverse incentive factor,” States and counties earn more revenue by having more children in the system – whether it is opening a case to investigate a report of child abuse and neglect or placing a child in foster care.” Facts-at-a-Glance, Child Welfare in California, 09-09-2003

At the end of FY 2003, Texas DFPS had legal responsibility for 22,346 children. Of that total, 15,414 children resided in foster care. In the same time period, there were 6,932 children in the Department’s legal custody who were not residing in foster care. Texas, as does California, PROFITS FROM HUMAN TRAFFICKING, which is a deplorable manner by which to fund County operations.

Some statistics from the State and County where I live:

In FY 2003, CPS conducted 131,130 investigations of abuse and/or neglect in Texas and confirmed abuse and/or neglect in 32,792 cases. In FY 2004, the number of child abuse and/or neglect investigations is expected to increase by 10 percent over FY 2003. In FY 2005, the percentage is expected to increase by four percent over FY 2004.

In 2005, the child population in Caldwell County was 10, 258. There were 510 intakes alleging abuse/neglect, 448 cases were assigned to CPS caseworkers, 329 completed cases alleging abuse/neglect, 539 alleged victims in completed cases, 101 confirmed cases, 153 confirmed victims, and 131 cases opened for in home services. (Source: The Texas Department of Family and Protective Services)

In 2006, the number of child sexual abuse clients served at Roxanne’s House (a program of the Hays-Caldwell Women’s Center) was 73. 30 were from Lockhart, 17 from Luling, 4 from Maxwell, 5 from Martindale and 17 from other Caldwell County areas. 26% of the child abuse clients served at Roxanne’s House were from Caldwell County in that year. (Source: Hays-Caldwell Women’s Center 2006 Annual Report).

Two of my daughters are statistics in the 2006 report. NEITHER were EVER abused in any way, shape or fashion until they were abducted by the State of Texas. This was emotional TERRORISM and TORTURE of the highest magnitude, conducted under the pretense of keeping my daughters “safe” from imaginary “risk”.

It’s all about the money. And there’s no money in family reunification and returning my daughter home. For information about CPS, drugging foster children for profit, and the social engineering of our nation’s children, please check out my site at:
Citizens should NOT be more afraid of social workers than they are of criminals. To this end, I have uploaded over 1,000 documents in PDF format for your edification and enlightenment in the Public Folders section of my site (scroll down to the bottom of the page and you’ll see them).

My CPS horror story can also be read on MySpace at: Knowledge is power. Empower yourself so you don’t become the next victim of America’s SS (social services).
Thank you for your time,
Carmen Rodriguez B.S.N., R.N.


Anonymous said...

I am a volunteer at CPS. When I began there I had no idea what to expect. I thought that all CPS did was take children away from families but what I learned is that they truly do help and protect children. CPS does its best to keep the children with their families. They offer programs to help the parents because they want the parents to be able to keep their children. The agency gains nothing from taking the children away from their parents and I am sorry that there are people that feel that way. During my volunteer hours I work with a wonderful caseworker. She genuinely loves every child that is in her care. She works long hours for little pay and she does it gladly because she loves to help these kids. I honestly dont see how someone can think that this is a buisness and that these people work for the money when there really isnt much money to be made. I am truley sorry that this happened to you but without CPS there would be thousands of kids with no where to go. Kids that would be forced to live in abusive homes. I know because i have seen it. I have seen the damage that some parents have done to their kids and i thank God that there are people with the heart to help these kids. I am currently going towards a degree in social work and even though i know it is not the best paying degree I wish to get this degree because I care.

LK said...

Nobody ever said that all caseworkers were bad. Lots of them are, but not all. Nobody ever said that there wasn't a need to protect children. There is. However, lots of cronies get state contracts and make lots of money. Lots of foster children have their lives destroyed. Lots end up homeless, in jail, on drugs, pregnant, medicated, abused in foster care. Lots of kids are taken because they are poor. Lots of kids are taken for no real reason because of overzealous caseworkers who like to jump the gun, panic because of what happened to some other kid that caused a public outcry which the state uses to plead for more money to hire more workers, put more kids into care, then on the market.

If you're one of the good ones then good for you. You'll be corrupted soon enough. Just wait til your supervisor tells you to do something unethical.

Anybody reading this comment, please remember that workers are master liars. Anybody who has ever dealt with them knows this.

The foster care system is no better or safer than an abusive home.

Anonymous said...

You guys are so full of shit.

Willa said...

A friend of mine just had her kids essentially stolen from her and given to her parents. She has no history of abuse or drug use. She doesn't know where to turn and I am very worried for her. Do you have any ideas on any next steps to help her get her kids back? Please email me if so @

Anonymous said...

My 11 yr old daughter has said that my husband (her step-father) molested her and CYFD came in and was real nice when I belived her...but as her stories changed depending on the person she told it to...My husband came home and I took my daughter to her father's house to "keep her safe" till the whole investigation was done...CYFD now turned on me and states I am an unfit mother a danger to my children and myself...even though I haven't done anything wrong...Now I am fighting for both of my daughters to come home to be with their brothers, their mother, and to the only man that stepped up as their ex now is using all these lies told to gain full custody and supervised visits...When he wasn't even there for years...I am being punished for being a mother and a wife nothing else...

Anonymous said...

Maybe the one you should be looking to to blame is your daughter. If she had not fabricated the lies you woud not ever have been in this mess. I guess the key lies in teaching your children not to lie, and teach them to value family. Perhaps you did try to do this with your daughter...perhaps she is just in need of mental health services, which you could have caught on to early on and referred her there, then she might have had a history of being a story teller.
Trust me, it all started with her lie, had she never made up the story, "fantasized" about it then reported it, cps would never have entered your lives.
I realize that the system can be flawed...but the flaws are not intentional. Social workers don't go into practice wielding a pitch fork, we go in with empowerment and empathy. If a child tells a detailed story of abuse then of course we HAVE to take a second glance...and if their story is as horrific as this one sounds, then we HAVE to remove...suppose the allegations are true? Which I am not suggesting that they are.
I really feel bad for you, I'm sorry that you have had to endure all of this pain but please don't blame the system, we didn't go hunting for your daughter, she came looking for us and a call for help must be answered. We only hope that a child wouldn't be vile enough to fabricate something that would break up their family. Honestly, your daughter is the only one who could have turned this around...why she did not recant her story after seeing all the hell she put you through is beyond me.

Anonymous said...

I sincerly symperthise with your story 100% because the same thing is happeneing to me... and every thing you have said about finances ect is exactly what ive been saying for the last 8 yrs. Its a jobs worth issue not whats right.Social services perspectives are the biggest lies going and the poor children that genuinly need there support are being murdered or abused because social services are putting so much more energie in making examples of good perants out to be bad ones the bad one get away with litualy murder.

Children who lie to get their own way are heard... but YOU try to tell the truth of the matter and defend yourself they class you as agressive and angry but YOU wernt agressive or angry in the first place and they cant see what they are doing is more abusive to the children than what ever was said about you in the first place...

One rule for one... another rulle for them.

I better stop now coz im getting wound up again..

I wish you all the love in the world and hope that you like me will be able to move on fron this distructive situation...

im glad im not the only person to think the same way and your in the USA ... im in the UK.

xxx Krissy ENGLAND.
mother to 6 children 5 of whom live with me .
2 have neverbeen in care or had social services intervention.
3 of whom have run away form the placement and returned home to me (not to anyone else)
and 1 that im fighting a court case just to see and who is terrified of the placement and speaking her mind in fear of being told of by the carer.

krissy said...

As for Anonymous's comment that "You guys are full of shit" if this person is a socialworker.
then im sorry its you thats full of it.. this is happenenig the world over and every poxy worker i have had the displeasure of speaking to are either children them selves with no life experiance other than sitting behind a desk reading or having a placement in a nursey with no practical 24/7/52 get up in the middle of the night with a screaming child coz of nightmares/illnesses/nosebleeds ect. Having to raise children on a pittance and making a budget work, going with out food and clothes so that your child doesnt have to. getting no sleep because of running your self ragged looking after demanding children. Putting up with the lies they tell to get their own way and having them rip you heart out because they can because of all the b*****s they are being fed by the goverment saying if this .. fone this. (AND its not the way they were) brought up to behave.

How the HELL can a worker with no experiance have the ordasity to question or judge any person who like myself and this lady HAs DONE NOTHING to warrent this.

Social services need (sod political/sexual correctness)a big kick up the backside and only employ people who have actualy lived and experanced what others have been through . Coz i can tell you now i have more experiance in my little finger on how children behave i can read lies like a book and know when some one is telling the truth. WHY!! because ive lived it as a child and an adult.

A social worker should be a mother/grandmother whos divorced and been in an abusive relationship (b it emotional or physical) then they can tell you how to deal with situations and understand the bigger picture.

If Anonymouse was a perant who is going through the same situation then the comment was a just one.


Anonymous said...

The CPS is very corrupt. I had to place my daughter in a Group Home for severe mental health issues. Now they are trying to keep her until 18. Well they definitely will not be doing that. They steal children out of non-abusive homes and place them into abusive homes. They sit around the office and talk about children and their families on a daily basis. They to play hard ball. I will play by the rules. Legally they cannot keep children. I will get my back in May. Fight this corrupt department. Our children are our future. They care nothing about these children's future. I had to get a worker fired. Because she was messing over my daughter and other children. The new one i have i will get her fired. I donot feel she is for the children either. If you are successful and doing well. They and others will try things to tear your family apart.

Anonymous said...

I want you all to know alot of the workers, supervisors and department heads, are very dysfunctional. I am going to fight for every child illegally taken by CPS. If you need help dealing with CPS, please send me an email.
LK i have only known one person who wanted to have children home with their families. The rest are committing a crime everyday. We should be arresting them. God takes care of babies and fools. This corrupt group God will expose and so will the people.

Anonymous said...

Hello, I am going through this as well. My family is gone and I am told if my daughter changes her story that I will lose her forever. My daughter has told the truth but we are afraid to tell them. My daughter lives with my sister, my son lives with a friend under house arrest(he is innocent). I am just a scared mother wishing this nightmare would end.

Kaira said...

How shocking.

Carmen Middleton said...

I am the original author of this post and would like to update the readers on what has happened to my CPS case:

On September 11, 2008, Beau ran away to escape CPS custody after being incarcerated for 974 days.
On September 4, 2009, Mark and I were divorced after 33 years of marriage.
On September 16, 2009, Mark and I appeared before CPS Judge Bonicoro again. She noted that it had been over a year since Beau had run away and since CPS had no idea where she was, she was taking them off the case. She then turned to us and stated “but YOUR status remains the same”…meaning her final orders are still in effect, so if Beau should come back to us, Mark won’t be allowed to be around her until she turns 18, and I can’t be around her until one of THEIR CPS contracted vendor shrinks says it’s okay to have unsupervised visits again—that’s visits, not live with her.
Both Beau and her sister Colette (CPS abducted them both on 1-11-06) are now Satanists since God didn’t answer their prayers and get them out of CPS custody.

Did I mention that CPS destroyed my family?
Carmen Middleton (formerly Rodriguez, now divorced) BSN, RN

Anonymous said...

in the State of KY, the had a handout about how people can touch you"in a bad way" discussed it in class, my Daughter was 7. I think that was GROSSLY inappropriate. I am her Mom, I should be allowed to talk to my child/children about things like that, especially when you take into consideration the sheer number of "EDUCATORS" brought up on rape charges!

And as for the "DEVOTED" caseworkers. The majority of them are Educated in THEORIES of how to parent, have no idea about how SOME divorcing parents lie & involve CPS in order to get out of Child Support. They may have the best of intentions, but fail to find what is in the best interest of the child.

If you look back at our own childhoods, NONE of us would have been raised by our NATURAL parents! There was no widespread use of carseats, people smoked & drank while expectant, my parents spanked me when I deserved it (with hand, belt, switch, whatever they could reach) but I was not abused for the times, because it was NORMAL to discipline kids.

I have a stepchild now that I locked out of the house while she was playing on the slip & slide in the back-yard, I had just mopped and was allowing the floor to dry & keep the wet kids from knocking thier BRAINS out! She started screaming it was "child abuse to lock a child outside"

we are talking FIVE minutes, they were in OUR yard, and it was dangerous for them to run in & out on lineoleum while sopping wet!

Wonder where she heard THAT one?

Anonymous said...

Here is a thought...just a thought...did anyone ask for a lie detector test? seriously, if these issues keep coming up...and I know CPS has the best of intentions and they do try to do what is best for the child but everyone knows someone is lieing in each case be it the parent or the child or the nosy bored neighbor. Just start using measures of a lie detector test. Parents and children can be tested and behold the truth will set you free. A lot easier and cheaper than all the investigating, etc. It would save millions of tax payers and government money and prevent the trauma that this woman says happened to her and her family.

Anonymous said...

CPS didn't destroy your family, your daughter destroyed your family.

Anonymous said...

ha!i can say that all the caseworkers that my daugther an son-n-law has dealt with are no good!a lady told my daugther an i about this webpage.and my heart goes out to everyone that figthing for thier babies!we are also figthing for our babies cps came into our lives and took our babies aways over lies!lots of people have told us,jus go with the flow tell cps what they want to hear and you'll get your babies back,ha!f@#$ that.we been telling the truth and god will set us all free.our figth with cps will be goin on a year now the judge has made it clear that the babies have to be in my Daugthers care by june.cps been doin everything they can to delay things..i thank god that our nitemare is almost all of you out there keep figthing,an praying god hears all prayers.and dont truth cps!THEY LIE AN LOVE TO PLAY MIND GAMES!AN THE CPS AGENCY DOES MAKE ALOT OF MONEY OFF OF OUR BABIES,I KNOW THAT FIRST HAND.

Anonymous said...

My son too was taken from my home and the same day placed with a family member who have left him on CPS's door step just 3 months before. The same person who set my hands on fire at the age of 6. I'm 49 years old now. My son was 2 when he was taken from me. I have not been aloud to see him or know where he lives. I have gone back to court but they believe I'm the bad one here and Its been so long now since I've seen him, He wants to stay with her. I miss my son every day and pray that someday he will chose to know the truth of all of this.

howard said...

Yes I do Know this. My little girl was taken by my wife and took her away. She is a drunk, drove with them drunk in the car with them. Left them alone in a house on more times then i care to remember and has beat her son from someone else. and they gave her the children. And I am fighting right now for my little girl.

Anonymous said...

I made the horrible mistake of contacting Job and Family Services myself in order to get help, we were being evicted and I felt like I was caving under the strain of raising 3 children on my own. I was only reaching out for help... what followed was 3 years of pure hell. They took my own words and twisted them, the hoops they wanted me to jump through were so numerous and time consuming that I didn't have time left over to work... it was a vicious cycle that took me to the brink of madness.. When I refused to admit that lies were the truth I was labeled as being in "denial". I know that many abused kids are helped by CPS... however in my case the charges against me were "instability" because we had to move frequently and "substance abuse" because I took doctor prescribed anti-anxiety meds and happened to mention to a caseworker (I was so STUPID!!) that I was afraid I might be addicted to them. I was NEVER charged with hitting a child, or neglecting a child, never with not feeding or clothing a child... Nothing that you could call child abuse. Yet my children, under CPS protection, were moved around from foster home to foster home, ugh... I have to stop now, all this makes me sick...

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Chrissy Love said...

My heart goes out to your family and i cried when i read your story. It is the same here in Australia it is a very lucrative business and they feed off lies fabricated by there own writers as they verbal the children and do it smiling...I am in court on the 15Th Nov 2010 my beautiful little indigenous girl Markitah Rose was taken from my home by 4 police offices because of false allegations made by who knows and was going to be placed into foster care but i made sure she went to family. My father is now 71 and his partner. i have been taken falsely to a hospital twice where they thought i should be so as they could give me drugs and try and give me shock treatment to make me better...OMG don't these imbecile's now by taking my daughter that was enough shock treatment for me...i am horrified that these people have the power to take our human rights away from us due to a phone call... I am a strong woman and my daughter i just like mother she will speak up like and in a loud voice...We will be heard and i will not stop talking even to media till she is returned home...Markitah will not be part of the STOLEN GENERATION she is to be brought back home... The Australian Government said SORRY to the Indigenous people of this country,that has to mean something...I so wish that you and your family get your children back and then make them accountable of there crimes as i am in the process of doing...30 years of being a mother and no one has ever crossed that and come for one of my children...I will make sure they never do it again...I AM GOING CLASS ACTION against these PARACITES and then civilly suing the Indian migrate that has no children to court as well...Stay strong and never give up hope you are such a brave and wonderful woman/mother ..stay proud... i told the DEPT and the worker these words and i stick by them...

Anonymous said...

The CPS and judges have been given to much power. CPS lies, twist and pad their own defence and a person never gets to tell the truth. The Bullitt County Family Court in Kentucky is run by a Judge who could care less about children's rights. Something has to be done about the abuse of biased power, poor personal judgement and special treatment of CPS workers by a Judge. Just try and get a lawyer in a small town who makes his/her living off the judge's grace to them. They will not fight for you because of fear it will upset the Judge and cost them money on their next case with the same judge.

Anonymous said...

my child was taken at 7days old polenty x govener from mn .passed a law.if you lost a child bin the past the welfare has the right to take another.we never harmed our new born and people do change.but i dont need to change i never harmed the first child that was taken that was a set wife has a clean record.we been maried for 24years.they told here to leave me that she wouldent get the child.they said that to here in court.thats what i call child kidnapping by the state of mn.and polenty wants to be president.i dont think so kid snatcher.some one should take your child and see how it feels

Anonymous said...

My 16 year old and her boyfriend called the CPI and said I was drinking and driving with my 2 younger children and I was taking ecstasy.

The CPI came the next day to my suprise and tested me ror drugs and alcohol both were negative. She asked me if I drink a lot, I told her I used to drink a lot until 1986, but rarely ever drink and for 12 years never even touched it.

Her report said I drink a lot by my own admlsslon.She also checked off on her report everything was done to keep the family together. I had never even seen her before then she took my kids. It was that simple.

Anonymous said...

Everyone that has had their children wrongfully removed by CPS needs to write the Office of the Inspector General.. They WILL investigate their lies.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to say but ALL caseworkers are bad! They all make up and fabricate lies. Some of them may have gone in with good intentions but turned evil.

Anonymous said...

I have driven down the road and seen a mother coming out of a trailer holding her length of rope she was bringing outside around her baby's neck (who had a abusively full diaper)chasing down her drunken husband with a beer at 9am.. These are the type of people that never get investigated by these agencies and their children get abused until they mysteriously turn up dead. I have had cps show up to my home at 7 am with drug testing kits ready to inspect every inch of my child and home because they got an "anonymous" tip from 1200 miles away with a 2 page list of completely outrageous, false claims. I still had to run in their circles and it was INSANE. Supposedly there is a fine for frauding such agencies, but there is NO way to prove it... I am outraged and have to live in fear of what crazy, fake stuff is brewing up to sabotage my family. My mother in law simply doesn't want her 32 year old son to live away from her (although she neglected and abused him growing up) and so I have been set up and framed many times since. What does it take to stop wasting 90% of the tax money going to cpf from being wasted on cases of obvious fraud? There are SO MANY abused children that NEVER get helped because these people are too busy hassling innocent people and great parents!

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Randy said...

It breaks my heart to hear so many stories of heartless social workers.
My good friend Vicky is a victim of the corrupt DCF system in Florida.

“Absolute POWER corrupts absolutely”

American Dream is not for illegal immigrants.

Victoria’s story is one of heartbreak, she thought the American Dream was to come here and work hard, make money to help her family and have a family of her own. Yes, both her and Jennifer are illegal; however, this does not mean that they are not human beings. Instead of the “American Dream” they have gotten the “American Nightmare”. Victoria has been bullied, DCF stole her sister and her nieces, she wants her family but they say because she is illegal she can not have them, she can not even see them. This is not true and we have asked for this law and it has not been produced. She wants her family. And Ms. Jensen, lawyer for DCF, has taken both of these children and her sister and removed them not only from their family but their culture to give them to the “American” family she feels is more appropriate, the legal, white family. These children are wanted by family. Because she is illegal and Hispanic her civil liberties are worth nothing. I guess this is one way to stop illegal immigration, steal their children.

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LaNikia said...

This is all so true. And my children as well have been stolen from me, while on vacation to CALIFORNIA, I call it my Califrnia vacation from hell. If anybody knows an attorney who CARES and will work pro-bono(ouch) they hate to hear that, but seriously I am in need of immediate help asap, because I am going to take my kids back, I have no contract with these cps agents and they can kiss my ass, my soveriegn integrity is not worth one date in hell with the devil. My case is huge & I want everyone to get their justice & retribution. This is going to be a win-win when Im done proving how corrupt this system really is. Let's all stick together for a class action law suit!!! It only takes one to make a difference. We TOGETHER can STOP them, destroying the "ties that bind." See my petition to the Whitehouse as well, "L.A. DCF Illegal Kidnapping Exposed." feel free to email me with any news/updates/attorneys or if you need an ear.... GOD BLESS ALL OUR HEARTS & OUR BABIES

Lawdoll said...

Well I for one am not full of shit, since I have a copy of the falsified and fabricated documents that the social worker forged my husband's signature to!!! I also have a copy of this social workers arrest record before she was hired and after she was fired...drugs and forgery, drugs and more drugs. CPS across this nation is corrupt and children are dying because of it.

LK said...

Lawdoll is not full of shit. She's right dead on.

I just refuse to sink to the levels of the system sucks by denying them their say. That's what they do with my comments.

Anonymous said...

One rule never trust any cps worker, do not spend time trying to defend yourself, they are the enemy and they did not give a damn about your children. A victim myself had my son kidnapped at birth over a c-section which I had accused of refusing the c-section. Call them liers and use the same intimations. They will rape and kill your kids without regret, my cousins 21 month old daughter was burned to death in her play pen while in their care and they still have her twin till this day a mia or pow. I got my son back and ran. I moved every year till he turned 18, thet are a nightmare.

Anonymous said...

CPS was called on my husband and I by the Baptist church across the street from our home. We don't attend church, the only family in our new neighborhood who doesn't attend the neighborhood Baptist church. We know it was them as we have no other close neighbors but the preacher's home and the church itself. Someone called and said I was leaving in the middle of the night leaving my children unattended and giving them alcohol. They even told CPS what kind of beer we were giving the kids. Well, I was leaving alone late at nights as it was December and I could shop the toy section of the 24 dept. store alone. And, the minister saw my husband working on the mower with that brand of beer but none EVER for the kids. One anonymous call, the kid's school was notified, our home searched and we were all interviewed. The man even told me if he came back, I better not have a dog in my house and my home is very clean dog included. I should go to church too and avoid such problems. Our name is dirt. I know CPS has a tough job but they are used to abuse people and should keep religion out of it. They didn't get my kids but I've never felt safe again.

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white said...

Great article.
Cps took my newborn baby girl at birth right out of the hospital without warning or anything. My mother, who hated the idea of me having a baby and being unmarried, called CPS along with my psychiatrist brother, Richard E. Repass. They made false claims that I was "mentally ill" MY brother told CPS I had "narcissistic personalisty disorder" and my mother gave them a different diagnosis that I was "scizofrenic." Cps believed their lies, or wanted to, so they could collect federal funding and they put my baby in a foster home for 5 and a half mos. where she suffered severe sexual abuse by an 8 year old boy and she also suffered from failure to thrive. I was able to get her back because social services' own psychiatric report stated that I "had no major mental illness" and another agency stepped in because my daughter had a failure to thrive and forced cps to give her back to me. That agency was the COmmunity infant project. I was able to get a settlement out of the County this happened in, and sued the foster home and got a small settlement. I am angry to this day, but especially my brother, a psychiatrist, working to this day in Hutchinson, Minnesota, his name is Richard E. Repass. He has never apologized for the damages done to his niece by his actions. He is pure evil. CPS is evil and does take children away for monetary gain through federal funding but the people that call CPS are evil as well. In this case, my brother Richard E. Repass.

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Anonymous said...

No fan of the foster system here, but some of Carmen's rantings about child abuse experts being commies, the state wanting to take our kids for profit (Dude, you live in Texas, they love homeschooling and church!) and equating communism, socialism and Nazism as one and the same (please stop listening to Glenn Beck, 'kay?) set off my BS o'meter.

The internet makes it oh so easy to find's the actual case:

There's a lot of testimony against Mark in this by all the kids AND Carmen herself.

Anonymous said...

CFS as thier now called here in San Bernardino just recently took my kids. I just found out that the social worker who got the court order was the one who made the allegations of sexual abuse because she tried to hide it from my new social worker. She took my kids because i told my mother she couldnt see my kids so she got my brothers boyfriend and my own cousin to call cps on me. All because me an my fiance argue and fight but guess what we do it in another room behind closed doors. Now im a supposed drug abuser with mental issues. And now that they basically had a rape kit done on my seven year old daughter and found nothing thier still fishing for information. Im going to sue cfs big time for this and if i dont get my kids back on the eighteenth im taking this to a higher court because its BS. All i have to say to the good mothers and fathers out there is fight and keep fighting!

Anonymous said...

The cps pigs don't need to be jailed, NO, they should be tried for the crime of MURDER. You see, to forcibly rip apart a family is just like killing a living being or entity. This is because a family as a whole fits the definition of a conscious living organism. ERGO 1).A family autonomously declares its own creation. 2).It has its own collective immune defense system that allows it to ward off and defend itself against outside attack, and then to repair and heal itself afterward and to even refine glitches within its own body politic to solidify family loyalty and further fortify itself from learned enemies. 3).It develops and grows in stages and is self-aware, with the mature family becoming independent and needing NO external governance, with the family assembly more resembling a micro nation-state, if you will. 4).Its distinct heartbeat is detected in the 'what shall WE do' motive force mapping the family's course of direction during its times of togetherness. - - Gee, I'd say that fits the definition of a living being, true? So to all of you PETTY LOCAL TYRANTS AND CPS BUREAUCRATS - YOU HEAR ME NOW ! ! KEEP YOUR FILTHY SOCIALIST HANDS OFF OUR CHILDREN ! IS THAT CLEAR? Whether you are directly esponsible for butchering one family or a thousand, or whether you merely held the theater ropes, YOU ARE ALL CULPABLE. You all have blood on your hands. We the people WILL DELIVER JUSTICE. Yes indeed, the nuclear family is greater than the individual. Greater than its sums in fact. To dismember a family is thus a greater crime than the murder of a mere individual. We THE PEOPLE must cry out 'TRY THEM FOR MURDER' - 'TRY THEM FOR MURDER' - 'TRY THEM FOR MURDER'. May the message ring across our land, from sea to shining sea, that the murderers BE GONE and that THE ALMIGHTY FAMILY LIVES ! !

Jay said...

The sad thing is, while DOCS (the Aussie CPS) steal much loved children from families based on false accusations (even when they have conclusive proof that the allegations were false) they still steal the children.

While those of those who are going through family court with a violent, narcisstic convicted child abuser, cannot even get DOCS to look into the abuse their child is reporting. Even sexual abuse reported to independent third parties is not investigated. Just told "it's a matter for the family cour to investigate" who in turn say "no, it's up to DOCS to investigate.

constantly passing the buck back and forth while children are bashed, raped and some even murdered.

When a child is murdered, they use the excuses of "we don't have enough funding and staff to investigate every complaint" yet thousands of children are stolen from loving homes, and when (IF) the children are finally returned then DOCS workers visit for a couple of hours, a couple of times a week for months or years.

So to turn around and say they don't have a work to send out for a maximum of an hour to investigate a child who has been molested where the father is a convicted repeat offender for assault and drug use, living with a diagnosed sociopath whose own child was removed for sickening violence against the poor child...

It's total utter BS. My daughter deserved better. She is only alive today because her father chose to stop seeing her because his diagnosed psychopathic mistress was jealous of the few hours he saw her each week.

DOCS wouldn't lift a finger to protect my daughter - but they had no problem stealing children from two of my friends who are happily married, and they are loving mums, and their husbands loving dad/stepdad. DOCS took months after the allegations were proven to have been made falsely before their children were returned, in one case the relative who made the false allegations was given temporary custody, filling the child's head with lies about how much his mother didn't want him etc.

Both kids are back with their parents now, but they are emotionally scarred even now, years later.

Yes there are some good social workers (they aren't all bad) but the good ones are few and far between.

And for the volunteer... Abusers aren't stupid. In organisations where there are abusers, the abusers don't show their true colours to volunteers. They wait til they are completely sure that you support their abuse before they show their true nature. It's no different from paedophile teachers and priests - most people think these men are wonderful until they see their true nature. That is the nature of abuse.

I see the same thing happening in hospitals (I'm a nurse). As a student, abusive doctors and nurses hid their true colours - their true nature only comes out when they think you either support them or that they can victimise you. I've been a victim of horrific abuse at the hands of a doctor and a nurse while a patient - they thought I'd be the perfect victim and wouldn't speak out. They were wrong. But abusers rarely get it wrong - they target families who they think make good victims. They only show their true nature to their supporters and their victims.

Be glad anonymous, that you got paried with a good caseworker. They are few and far between.

Yes there are terrible abusers - my ex husband is a psychotic, drug addict and the mistress that became wife number 2, is a genuine sociopath who abuses children terribly. DOCS would not do a thing to protect my daughter from these monsters.

Yes children need protecting from genuine abusers, but working in healthcare (and seeing the fallout) I can guarantee - where there is real, serious abuse, DOCS does nothing. Where there are false allegations and good parenting, DOCS steals the children.

Anonymous said...

C.P.S in Kansas took my children all because i asked for help with shelter. My children was 13 and 10 at the time.My kids was not talked to bye the c.p.s worker,she had no grounds to take my kids so they (the court and cps) decided to use cases that my childrens dad had opened on him aginste me in court and it was allowed!!! I was never married to there dad so I dont see how they could use cases on him on me???The attourny I had was court appointed and would not tell me what was going on..I was scared into signing over my rights bye the judge and my attourney...All I wanted was help...I did what I was supost to do as a mom I turned for help.instead of neglecting my kids and keeping use under a bridge(ect,) for example!!! thank you J>J a single mom in need

Anonymous said...

to the obvious cps worker that commented that you have to investigate and the problem is that the child lied to get cps involvement, let me enlighten you. you are as an agency, the most corrupt, immorral, lying, manipulating, unconstitutional agency ever put into existence. i know this because after your agency put my family through your "services" three of the people that worked/contracted with you found their morals and ratted you out. the first of which was the original investigator who stated that they knowingly built their case on lies. the second a cps contracted psycologist who stated i did nothing wrong and then told me how to present the information to the judge. the third was the licensed counselor who was cps contracted pulled me into her office looked around to make sure noone in the cps office could hear her, closed the door and informed me that the information she was about to give me could cost her a very lucrative contract with cps but she could not look the other way any longer because of the mental trauma cps was causing my children. the information that was passed to me, i passed to my attorney who knew just the right way to ask the social worker in front of the judge a very important question. the result: CPS HAD TO ADMIT TO THE JUDGE THEY WERE LYING FROM THE BEGINNING. THAT'S RIGHT FOLKS! CPS CAUGHT IN COURT LYING. and they recieved no punishment. so much for your theory that cps protects children.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry our justice system and all that is corrupt. It shouldnt be but just like with everything it all boils down to money. I have never liked anything govt. This is exactly why. I am and have been a low income family. My childrens father and I arre not married but we have been together for 12 years. My mother is a god freak. Now please dont go all crazy on me for my choice of words but i believe their is a difference in believing in god and being a follower and being brain washed by your church to the point you dont even acknowledge free will anymore. Which is what she is. My daughter has come home talking about it doesnt matter what she does god will protect her. She almost stuck her finger in an outlet socket she broke off by her bed and when i saw that i explained to her that it could kill her, and her answer to me was no it wont god will protect me grandma says so. She doesnt ever take my son unless i throw it in her face that shes plays favortisim. I have gotten to a point where I do not want my kids around her at all. So i have decided to keep them from going to her room. See right now me and my family are stuck living in a hotel room until we can pay off an eviction that happened due to my fiance being laid off after signing a new apartment lease. Well my mother also has a room here with my brother. She is constantly calling me trying to get me to get her food. Which its tight enough with a family of 4 without adding 2 more mouths. She doesnt have any money because she goes shopping for crap she doesnt need. Now she knows that i plan on not letting her keep my kids overnight or see them anymore and shes out to get me however she can. She has already told me she will call whoever she has to in order to keep me from keeping the kids from her. My mother has mental issues although she has never been diagnosed with anything she clearly has issues and anyone who meets her and sees how she acts when she doesnt get her way has said the same thing. I do not want to deal with CPS because I know I will go to jail because the minute they try to touch my kids I will hurt them. NOONE will take my kids from me. I as the parent have every right to decide I dont want anymore of my mothers influence on my kids, mostly my daughter luckily she hasnt been around my son enough to influence him about anything. I already know she plans on telling them I do drugs and dont keep house well. I swear I might end up in jail for killing her should things go down like I fear. I cant stand her which is sad as she is my mother. What can I do to beat her basically,like let someone know she is threatening to lie about me and my fiance and our character?

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Robin Pagoria, 47, pleaded no contest to two counts of aggravated child abuse by torture/malicious punishment, two counts of using a child in a sexual performance and two counts of lewd or lascivious battery, for the acts committed at her home in Auburndale, according to the website.

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Hey I have a case in San Bernardino too. My whole case was based on lies from a family member and I complied and did their stupid case plan. They still terminated my rights because I spoke out publicly against them and nothing more! I personally know of about over a hundred cases that got closed and children reunified even though the parents tested dirty,had no home, or did partial case plans. I was told that the only way to secure your reunification regardless of what your accused of or have done is to kiss ass to the social worker! I wouldn't do that so I lost my children. If I could give advice to anyone I would say do exactly that if you can morally. I refused to lie and agree with their allegations because as a Christian I just could not do it. It's a hard decision that only you can make. I personally think these social workers don't have a soul and enjoy taking children because their own lives are out of control so they get power hungry and money hungry. San Bernardino has corrupt judges that side with every worker and don't make any judgements using their own brains. May God forgive me for my bitterness but NO ONE should have a child ripped away from them and these people who post about how Cps does good for the children I hope they too someday get a case and lose their children. Funny how NO SOCIAL WORKERS EVER LOSE THEIR CHILDREN , RIGHT? They have lives just like us and get away with murder. God will prevail and their judgement day will come.

Cate8 said...

This is horrible
I know
It is happening to me.
Bad social worker. Power hungry and she was manipulated by my exhusband.... wouldn't contested custody/divorce raise red flags? Not to this woman....but now she has disappeared thank God. but left her 'notes' and mess behind... and still DCF wants to give the girls to him (he is their 'foster' parent) DCF is unstoppable.... they are evil... I am not afraid to name names.... the case workers name was Amy Miller DCF plymouth MA.

Mary Aguirre said...

Thanks for writing this... I survived having my newborn girl taken from my breast by CPS... My story is horrifying to any loving mother or father... My baby girl was taken for a no good reason and I still after five and a half years have PTSD... We got her back after 9 months, but all that important bonding time was lost.. WE got to see her one hour a week!!! While she was in care she went to the emergency room because she had an alergic reaction to her immunizations that we told them we didn't want her to have, at-least until she was five and her immune system could handle such an invasion. Well we didn't here about her ER visit till four days later at our visit.. I was outraged to say the least. My step daughter contacted autism after her 18 month shot and that was another reason we did not want her immunized, and they knew this.. What they did to us is criminal, and I know they make the same mistakes all the time and take kids who don't have any business being in state care.. No child comes out of state care unscathed, even if the foster parents are good people, the children still want their real families and feel neglected and become emotionally scarred... This can't go on for much longer, something must be done..

And for that volunteer worker.. It's been years and you probably won't read this, but why if you thought "all CPS did was take children away from families" why would you want to work for such an organization??!!?? It's takes a hardened person and many times a mentally sick person to take children away from their families!! People with power trips take kids away from loving families when there has been no evidence of abuse.. And there is a big money incentive to take kids, maybe not for you because you volunteered, but for everyone else under the CPS umbrella there are bucks to be made and quotas to be filled. Our kids might be dollar signs to CPS workers, but our kids are priceless to us.. CPS is destroying innocent souls for monetary gain.. Now I know there are reasons for CPS to be in business, but they have to get a better screening process for both taking children and who they let become foster parents.. These people need hardcore psych evaluations, lie detector test, background checks and an open door policy to check on kids anytime 24 hours a day.. And this still won't be enough, child molesters and abusers will slip through the cracks, that's why we must listen to every child in foster care and if they say abuse has happened then remove that child, don't give foster parents the benefit of the doubt, because 97% of the time they're in it for the money and don't give a damn about the precious life they have in their grimy greedy hands..... Okay, I'm ranting I'd better go... May God bless all the innocent parents who've had the misfortune of having to deal with CPS.. And most of all God bless the children who go into CPS custody mentally sound and very happy and come out traumatized and scarred for life...............

Anonymous said...

i am a retired DoD special Agent, the top of the law enforcement ladder a neighbor called on my now ex wife and i in florida,they saw our daughter "playing" with herself in her bedroom, which was on the second floor with no view of ANY homes, that's why we gave her the room, for privacy for a 8 year old girl, yet that did not matter

it turned into a nightmare, see most if not all DHS workers enjoy sovereign immunity, which means when you let them into your home they can do what they want, include exert moral and legal superiority

i finally got to the point, i almost resigned, and they were threatening molestation charges, and more, until i contacted an attorney in NYC that specialized in these cases, amazingly in a week it was over, but not after casting a shadow on my character in the DoD

my best advice NEVER EVER let DhS into your home without a warrant, they will do anything and everything to "save" the child for everyone but themselves, the county or the state

Anonymous said...

I read your story. I am in the process of becoming a foster parent. I'm trying to see both sides of the fence. I am shocked that your eldest daughter did that to you. She is either a sociopath or she's telling the truth. You have to be pretty evil to destroy your family for spite, or attention. No loving person could do that.

On the other hand if abuse took place maybe your in denial. One of my friends was raped by her father and her family dishoned her when she testified against him. Her siblings said she was a liar, her mother returned everything she ever gave her and cursed her name. You have no idea what my friend went through. She was singled out and abused. None of the other siblings knew anything about it or the mother.
So like I said either your daughter is evil or something happened....

Brittany Wakefield said...

Im in the same bout my son was legally stolen fron me april of 2012, by my adoptive mother who stole me from my mother ive done everything the courts said but cant get my son back. If you learned anything help ful please contact me at

Anonymous said...

CPS is the biggest crock of crap there is. I personally have not had a case against me. Back in February of 2013 my friends daughters were taken from her by CPS on allegations of drug use and domestic violence. She had tried to seek help for the domestic violence for approximately a month before cps got invoked. Everyone including the police turned her away. She submitted a drug test which she told them she had take half an Adorall(?). She failed the test. About a week later they did a hair follicle test and she passed it. She has been given 8 test since then and all have been negative. They placed her children in separate homes but both have been place with family. One of the girls is in a home with her father who has never cared for her. He was caught taking her to a bar (she is only 13) and he got drunk and drove her home and tried to choke her. She is very close with me and my daughter and she tells me everything. I had the police sent there and she told them she wad fine. She said she lied because she was scared of her dad. We have tried to get her out of his home and place with her sister but cps just won't let it happen. There is lots more I can say. Does anyone have advice or someone my friend can talk to and get help to get her kids back?

Anonymous said...

My son has lost he 6 kids in Feb 2013 they took them from school the charges were from the 2 oldest girls they wanted to return to Louisiana with there grandparents and mom my son took a lie detector test and pass every questions then they had there last child in march they took the wife and baby saying that the 2 oldest girls said the my son would get drunk and get mean and hit them and the wife all lies said thing about this too is I have cancer since 2009 so what if I never see them again my son never whipped his kids are every hit his wife I no because I see them every day they live in my back yard the people that reported this is the grandparents the lives in Louisiana what the 2 older girls didn't like was rules they to go out and do what they want like drinking with there mom and other stuff now my other moved here 2 weeks ago and already cos Todd has gone to school to talk to my sons only daughter but said everything was good so where are our rights they can do what ever the want we need to do something about thisy son has never been in trouble it all started here wheny husband pass guess they don't like outsider because we are from Louisiana we have been here nd for 2 years no one we chase us out we will fight back there is so much more I could say but I think you get the message I really want my family back

Anonymous said...

My son has lost he 6 kids in Feb 2013 they took them from school the charges were from the 2 oldest girls they wanted to return to Louisiana with there grandparents and mom my son took a lie detector test and pass every questions then they had there last child in march they took the wife and baby saying that the 2 oldest girls said the my son would get drunk and get mean and hit them and the wife all lies said thing about this too is I have cancer since 2009 so what if I never see them again my son never whipped his kids are every hit his wife I no because I see them every day they live in my back yard the people that reported this is the grandparents the lives in Louisiana what the 2 older girls didn't like was rules they to go out and do what they want like drinking with there mom and other stuff now my other moved here 2 weeks ago and already cos Todd has gone to school to talk to my sons only daughter but said everything was good so where are our rights they can do what ever the want we need to do something about thisy son has never been in trouble it all started here wheny husband pass guess they don't like outsider because we are from Louisiana we have been here nd for 2 years no one we chase us out we will fight back there is so much more I could say but I think you get the message I really want my family back

Anonymous said...

"it did happen to me". Just had my three kids taken from me for my neighbor abusing my daughter. in this case it was the GAL that was corroupt, not DSS.... if you want my option, don't trust anyone.... going back now after spending almost $8,000 on lawyer fees to appeal. I've had my kids since the divorce (8 years), I did everything right! It happened to me and it can happen to you too!

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Anonymous said...

myy children were taken from me nine years ago reports said I haf no water food or electricity. That I was seen in a car doing drugs. That they had been to my apts several times the addresses were my daughters she had two kids also. I said my kids weren't even here they were in ohio visiting dad. I had a good job home sstraight a students. I repeated to cps I never lived there its my daughter. When cps came I was asleep in report she said I appeared on drugs. They took my kids the next day. I wanted to die. I did all I was suppose to do and when I went to court I thought I was getting them back they had plane tickets sent them to dad who abused my kids for three years when drinking. I wrote letters to govern in arizona never received a reply I've asked for my records never have gotten them. I still live in pain. They are 20 and 21 now. I want those records not once did cps come to my house they said ten times it was my daughter. They said they went to neighbors the school all lies. I had letters stating I was a good parent. I live in pain every day. Lawyers wouldn't take the case against cps. I was jailed for life with no proof. God help those evil people. I just want my records.please I'm 58 yrs old before I die I want the state of arizona to make it rght. Please if antone can helpp

Anonymous said...

blaming others on this blog really helps huh.

Anonymous said...

you sure are a busy bee aren't you Carmen middleton.

what kind of pathetic parent does this to their child?

here is another.

and again


if you didn't have so many fake profiles and weren't so blatantly abusive with the posts and pics posted about your daughter people like me just may have believed you.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...

I have 3 beautiful daughters one 17, 15, and 13 soon. My 17 yr old is in the Navy in fact. We had a visit from cps and they made me choose my husband or kids and made me file an EPO against him. Well before he could get served he checked in at a mental hospital and has been diagnosed with Bipolar. My thoughts was OMG WHAT ??? Well he has stayed away from me and the kids and cps shows up at my house and ask to see the inside of my home and check to see if he was here. I allowed them in and said sure I have nothing to hide. She finds noone here but me and one of my daughters. Now tell me why she is wanting me to do a piss test for drugs and they are tryin to get me for neglect on my children??? I have nothing to do with my husband not being found and im being punished?? How? and Why? because i ticked them off because he was not in the home like she hoped he would be? I cant trust them she has lied 3 times to me already I talked to his mental hospital social worker they knew he had court and she tells me they say they had no ideal.. WHATEVER

Anonymous said...

CPS doesn't want to help parents or families. No matter what they say, their goal is not reunification. They get PAID to get your kids adopted to someone else.

Allie and Billy said...

As I read all these stories they bring sadness and relief. My name is Allie. My husband and I live in Rochester Vermont. 3 years ago our the loss of my babies began. We are not bad parents and love our children and would stand in front of a car for them if thats what had to be done. My mother has my 3 children and not by choice I was bullied by the courts and manipulated by my mother. All it took was a bunch of lies and allegations from my mother. We cant afford any lawyers because they want atleaast four grand to even look at our case. no luck with pro-Bono. DCF backed out after a year saying the kids were safe. the truth is they are not. About a year ago my mother made an outrageous allegation and all communication and visitations have been stopped. My mother only has guardianship but with the state giving the kids a lawyer and my mother managed to surface with one as well. we had no chance. They did an investigation and found nothing but for no sense that I can come up with the judge stopped everything. we hadnt seen our kids in a year until a few days ago we ran into them in the store they ran up to us I couldnt help but to cry, hold them as close as I could, and smell them. I asked my 8 year old daughter if she was scared and she said no mommy I have been so worried about you and daddy. then my youngest son 4 years old said daddy you an mommy been in jail?? We reassured all of them that we have done everything we can to be with them and no we were not in jail but working and getting better. As we brought them to the parking lot my mother started yelling 2 years of f**king therapy down the drain. look at my car its falling apart because you 2 cant get you s**t together. Mind you our kids heard this all. We went to buckle them in and I could see tears forming in their precious eyes. We hugged them and kissed them and told them to be brave and that we are figuring things out. they looked scared and I dont blame them. My mother was very mentally and physically abusive to me and still tries to be. she told the courts the kids didnt want to see us that they were afraid of us. Our middle boy has been acting out and he failed kindergarten but instead of normally adding this up to they are struggling because they worry and miss us. they need us as much as we need them. My step father spanks my children and I was just recently told that he picks on my boys because they are not circumcised. I could go on and on but because my husnad and I struggled a little with alcohol and some minor drug use everyone treats like we dont matter or exist. we have done everything the courts have asked and still here we are trying everything and anything to get our story out. I have hope and I will never give up. one thought I have is why dont we all come together and help not only our children but other children. notify Dr.Phil, legislators, the president anything,something. thanks for reading and I am happy to see other people reaching out this is and epidemic that can continue to spread. ~~Allie~~

Anonymous said...

Really,full of shit aye? The one who is full of shit here,is the one who knows NOTHING of having there child taken,not once,but twice from CPS..You have no place saying this.Do you know what its like to have you child taken,and kept for 17 dam years,and even though she ages out in a few months,goes back to the foster family,that hit her,yelled at her,lied to her,about myself,and continues to mess with her,because I have fought so hard to have my child reakon we are full of shit...reality have nooo idea so shut the hell up

Anonymous said...

Wait a minute...a child in today's society,gets mad at its mum and dad,when they tell them off,set boundaries..its called parenting..but enter Govt who flips rules,changes legislation..its called "In the Best Interest of the Child", spose fair enough,cause it is about the Child,right...well I cast my mind back to when I was a child,there was respect for your elders,don't back chat,go outside and play,see you before dark for dinner..and do as you dam well told...and today...the Child tells you how it will be,what they want,cause its all about them, have the best interests,and a very angry child cause mum and dad give or try to add boundaries,then bam,child lies about anything so the Child is in control,then the Child is removed,the Child is filled with DID THIS HAPPEN..Yeh why not the Child adds,they don't realize what they are doing..and because of all this,the parents lose ALL rights to the Child they loved and raised the correct way..once your child is in the system,that's it,the system will mess your child do I know...cause my child is 17 and still in the system,and I'm fighting just to see my child..why won't she see me,cause THE Foster parents,lied all these years,and can't afford to be found out,because they have 6 other foster girls in that family,and are using my child as a babysitter now,and my child is so brainwashed,she believes been hit by her foster father is love..the foster parents foster ALL girls,my child was the first,after she couldn't have children,the foster mother..there is Parental Alienation Syndrome involved,I will never get my child back,I never saw her in 8 story will come out soon..I'm writing it...I'm in Australia..if you want help I can only offer experience and what to do,how to challenge the dept..if I had all the net and more 18 years ago,I would have my I didn't,and I lost my child,and any future grandchildren...but I can stop that from.happening to you...I am NOT a lawyer,but I am familiar with my way around the courts..

Anonymous said...

I'm going through something like this now, thankfully not quite as heinous. My ex-husband made false allegations in order to get custody of my son who is only 4 years old. I expect to get TPRed at some point even though I work in law enforcement with no criminal history. I never thought something like this could happen to someone like me!

LK said...

Nobody understands until it happens to you.

Shaun Ellsworth said...

Hi my name is Shaun, Me and my poor wife have been going through hell for the last couple of years thanks to out lovely dcf program! to make a long story short Me and my wife broke up for a year and she had a kid with this kid Dave and he was psycho, I mean he raped my wife in front of my oldest son and I helped her get away from this scumbag, well she when to a women shelter with my kids to get away from him and he has a sister who works for DCF and is a foster mother well he called DCF on her and they made up lies to take the kids which I thought ok we did nothing wrong they won't do nothing WRONG! Well my wife had surgery on her tailbone which is really painful and she got pain meds for it, well DCF tried to say she got 600 pain pills in less than 6 weeks which is impossible no doctor would write that much as well as masshealth won't cover that much!! so they came took my kids and the kid she had with that kid who called, well again to make a long story short the baby girl they had together ended up in his sister's care because she is a foster parent and she quit DCF just so she can get her, I mean it’s got personal written all over it but some reason the court went in DCF's favor not ours!! When the report on us is just insane! and they somehow got our rights taken away trying to say we abuse drugs, now I'll be honest we used to have a drug problem after they took the kids because we were so upset they were gone and that we couldn't win to get em back this whole thing ripped our family apart!! We never used anything when we had our kids and they were spoiled and had a great life and now they have emotional problems from being taken away they messed our poor kids up and this is the most helpless feeling I ever had! I can't protect em or take their pain away and its killing me and all because it’s a personal case where a kid that raped my wife in front my oldest son which my son told em he did called DCF to get his daughter which he blamed the baby for her leaving him so when the baby was in his sister's care he grabbed the poor baby and shook her and threw her at the wall which now the poor baby has brain damage and can barely walk and do things breaks my heart! but he called to do all that and his family worked for DCF so we lost our whole life because of this and the area I live in seems so crooked that I can't get anywhere I can't believe the courts always go on DCF's side, I mean they caught the worker making false drug tests and everything no way we should of lost our rights and I don't know what to do, can someone please help me! And has for our addiction problem we got into a program and its now under control and we are clean, we just want our life back we would never hurt them kids we love them too much! Please someone help me I don't know what to do! And also we went to Boston and told em about this and they talked to the dcf worker and believe her for some reason! Seriously please help me!

Anonymous said...

I realize that this post is several years old but I need to get this off of my chest.
I am currently 44 years old but what happened to me and 2 of my children happened 26 years ago.

I was booted out of foster care at 18 with a handicapped 16 month old and a 6 week old. I had no where to go except a shelter they had found for us. I was told by the group home that the shelter would provide the prescription formula that my 16 month old needed to survive because of multiple severe food allergies. This lasted a week and I was told I had to wean him off of the formula which the doctor said he needed. Alone, with no experience, with no where else to go, and not knowing where to go for help, I called my case worker who I had trusted all those years while in the system. I asked her if I could place them in TEMPORARY foster care and she had me sign the paperwork. Little did I know that they would be assigned a different caseworker who battled me for 2 years. I ended up losing them both and they were adopted out. A year in a half ago the youngest of the two contacted me. I learned that they had not been placed together and we both learned from his adoptive mother that his elder brother had killed himself while being held in a youth detention facility in California that punished the kids by putting them in cages. In one day I found one son and learned of the death of another. I was in a very dark place for several weeks. I had to send my youngest daughter to my mothers house for a while because I could not function from the grief. The pain in my soul was so unbearable... To know that this woman basically sold my children because of whatever chip she had on her shoulder left me angry and depressed. Still after all this time her actions affect me in a way that I would not wish for another human being. My children were sold in my opinion. There were other family members willing, able (Physically, emotionally, and financially) to take them but she refused. As a result, one of my sons is now dead. Our imaginations can be a dark thing and for me that darkness was imagining him wrapping that sheet around his neck and believing no one cared about him. Even now the pain rips at me when I think about it and my body shakes. I don't know what or if there is anything I can do about it. But I go on, one day at a time and pray that he is in a place of no suffering and knows how very much I love him. As for the state of California, I will never go back there to live as long as I have minor children in my care.

Anonymous said...

To Anonymous about taking a lie detector test.. I took one and passed it but did that matter? No! It did not set me or my children free. My story is somewhat similar to the original authors, I haven'y seen my babies in 18 yrs! Now my kids are old enough to learn the truth, they don't want to hear it. They have been so brainwashed into believing what DHS and the courts put on paper... they think that's the truth! DHS is destroying families by the millions across the world, these children are all of our futures, but what kind of future are any of us going to have with all these children being destroyed by the system?? DHS should not have the power to play judge, jury and executioner! We all need to wake up, stand together and demand this to stop.. Enough is Enough!!!

Anonymous said...

same thing happened to me! My children was removed from my house for absolutly no reason at all..Yes it seems odd...After 15yrs I finally Found my Children and the Same questions I had then was also n thier minds..They had the report papers and couldnt understand why were they removed..No Abuse No HArmful environment no nothing..I tell U what I do Know..They Lied to us all..On the Very Last Court Day,I remember it clearly when the worker Bowed dwn to the lady who had them in thier home and told her "Your Wish is my Command" So Under that very Statement I realized that My children Was Tooken Kidnapped from me Ligally to Make someone else Happy..Ruined our lives forever. I wanted to tell My sonthe whole Story but then again I just couldnt hurt him that way..Not sure what to do!

Ralyn said...

"The agency gains nothing from taking the children away from their parents and I am sorry that there are people that feel that way."

I'm sorry - but that's an outright lie. My 2 oldest were stolen from me because my half-sister called them and lied that I'd abandoned them and nobody knew where I was. She had agreed to take them for a couple weeks while I was looking for new housing and knew exactly where I was and I'd been in constant contact with her. My youngest was stolen from me by a 3rd party CPS agency after DCFS worker had already said the allegations were false but had turned it over to another agency to help me financially because I was struggling to make ends meet. Instead of helping they lied to the judge and seized my son - then intentionally did not pick me up for court like they were supposed to so that they could terminate my rights without my presence and put him up for adoption.

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Anonymous said...

maybe some of them r good and go by the book,but i agree with legally kidnap because same thing happened to me and my famiy.they say they r for the children but their not how can u take a small child out of the home of someone who they have allways known and put them with strangers and think that's good for them,take them out of a house that they have no evidents of abuse im a grown women and miss my family wen im gone for the weekend just imagine how a child feels.but i say to those who r doing it out of love thank you and the ones not just know there is a GOD AND YOU DONT MESS WITH HIS CHILDREN.

marvin sandoval said...

I bet Anonymous is a real cps case worker.

Anonymous said...

It's very sad when you know you have Donne anything wrong to your child and somebody is trying to take him way because the power they may have. I my self went to an emergency home in Boston and my son which was 14yo was cold and he was complain about the freezer place and I took my jone I give to him and I put my clothes on and he was so warm near me and those crew from a emergence room made a anonymous phone call to CPS and they come and took my kid way just for being warm on is dad. They have accusing me for child molested and they evaluated my kid even on his anus to see if he was really been molested by is own father. What a trauma they put my kid to go true? I was despaired and hope less and I think they the one that was abusing of my child with no respect for him. Thanks god my son was a big kid and he spook to his self and they had no chance to take him way from me. I WILL AlWAYS LOVE MY CHILD.

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Deborah said...

There are still thousands of mothers losing their children every day to CPS/SS/FAMILY COURT CORRUPTION. PLEASE share our location and join us in our quest for the return of our children to us, around the world. We are MOTHERS WHO WANT OUR CHILDREN BACK, and we will NEVER give up!

Deborah said...

There are thousands of mothers losing their children every day due to the corruption and organized crime that runs and ruins CPS/SS/FAMILY COURT worldwide.

Please share and join us in the quest to have our children returned to us around the world!


Deborah said...

Please join us, we are MOTHERS WHO WANT OUR CHILDREN BACK and we will NEVER give up!

Deborah said...

Please join us, we are MOTHERS WHO WANT OUR CHILDREN BACK and we will NEVER give up!

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Anonymous said...

What is wrong with everyone ???? We all have our own stories to tell about how our children or grandchildren were taken away from us for no real reason at all.... I am a very loving grandmother who had three of my beautiful little grandchildren taken away from my daughter because of one accident....that could have happened to anyone.
I suggest to the none believers of this horrific do your home work, on this matter before you reply with its all B..L...SH.T. It's people who say things like that...that have know real reasoning, compassion, empathy for anyone but themselves....because to them, they believe it would never happen to them because they are better than everyone else. How sad to have such a very small and closed mind, to the real facts in life.
Before the story broke about this Pedafile ring a few weeks ago....I can guarantee that if someone told you that this was happening with, police officers, judges, social workers, priests, teachers, carers, etc, you wouldn't have believed that either......
And we are talking about people that have a roll in protecting our children....we....tell them that it ok to trust these people...because that is what society tells us to do and how many children were harmed by these so called people that have jobs that should be protecting our children....not abusing them and treating them worse than animals ?
Oh you... you may think what you like....because we as parents and grandparents know the see... we are living this nightmare..and how can millions of women all over the world suffering the same fate as one WRONG.....and you right ?????

Anonymous said...

Oh my

Anonymous said...

I agree. Sometimes they take kids who purely have no signs of abuse, put them in their system, and the children suffer far more in their care and have a lifetime of traumatization over it. Along with parents after some that get their kids back forever fearing cps can take them again any time. And often times they take the kids under false stories. Someone has to lie and take the blame and both parents are forced to accept the blame true or not and submit to whatever they are told to do in order to get the kids back. Often at least one year. And then the parents have to pay the foster care back. They took my babies when they were four months and three years old and I did what I was told. Got them back one year later. One visit my daughter's face was all scratched up from another child attacking her in their care. Nightmare! They were afraid of the dark and being left alone for even a minute. Then the years that followed cps kept on my tail investigating me every so often. Yet my kids were healthy and did well for years in my care. Recsently my daughter has become a rebellious teen. I was doing everything I could to get her on the right course. Trying to use correct parenting skills they taught me as always. Never hit my children. I got Counselling for her and myself. She quit hers. Every time I tried to say she was grounded she would throw a ballistic fit. She would threaten to report me to cps. Well she is 16 and two months pregnant now. I tried to fround her and she began hitting me. Then when I tried to stop her by holding her arm and trying to walk her back to her room telling her to calm down or she may hurt her baby while she was hitting me. Then she said her belly hurt. She called the police and told cps pushed on her belly sat on her and squashed her belly. Cps took her away and four days later took my younger boy away. They never take one child. They take em all sayn the others are at risk. My daughter admitted as partially a lie in what she said sayn I didn't sit on her and squash her belly. But cps went on to say oh but look at tour parents history. They pointed out that I have PTSD. (Raped in the service). And are trying to prove a billion other reasons why they can't return my kids to me. Such a nihhtmare. And having being this is the second time I know you can't fight them no matter truths lies whatever. I will do everything they tell me to get them back or they won't give them back. But I know this will traumatize my younger child so horribly. My daughter is just trying to het them to let her move in w her boyfriends family. So selfish not to consider her brother. I can only pray and do my best to get them back. But this is horrible. I wish someone could make them come up with a more thorough and fair system. And make a safer and comfortable place for the kids and allow more parent contact when not finding any actual physical abuse. My son has straight As and was happy with me. This is horrible and he left in tears and I in tears. Just as I cried every night the first time I will again now. Because I know my babies are sufferring. I can forgive my daughter, because I love her. I hate to know my kids are out there with them crying scared sufferring. I know this because my daughter is allowed to call my Mom. And my Mom tells my she calls crying and telling her how horrible it is where she is. My poor babies! How can they do this to people? I hope I get my kids back soon. Its sad they have to spend Christmas in their crazy assessment homes and foster homes. It makes me sick. And my sweet loving boy will not get his 14th bday at chuck e cheese like he wanted. Has to spend it without family. Oh my Lord how can you let this happen again? I SURE HOPE THEY REALIZE MY DAUGHTER LIED AND JUST NEEDS TO LEARN THATS WRONG and that they return my babies soon before they do far more damage in their system.

Anonymous said...

Today I spoke with my daughter. They are in foster care together since friday. She's the 16 year old. She says my son isn't sleeping nor eating right there. He is special ed and needs more attention than most kids. This is a nightmare. I'm gonna complain about this in the intake hearing tomorrow. I hope to God they return my babirs home. The hospital found no abuse nor neglect signs. My daughter admit I didnt sit on her nor her pregnant belly. So why do they have to be there especially for Christmas and my son's 14th birthday? This is so horrible.

Anonymous said...

God help our families.

Anonymous said...

Its not like I didn't give her therapists and doctor care to help guide my 16 yr daughter.

Noah Lipper said...

Document document document i have won 5 wrongful cases only because i turn on the video camera when they come , they run like cock roaches email me if u need help

Noah Lipper said...

Turn on the video camera and they will run like cock roaches email me if u need help,beating them.
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Anonymous said...

I read you'r blog mostly in shock, near tears, and at the same time understanding. In 2007 a set of events began that have sent my life and my two oldest childrens lives into a tail spin that we still have not been able to recover from or correct. I will try to keep this short and to the point as it is confusing. On feb 6th 2007 my son was borne 6 weeks permature. He was in the NICU for over a month. After his realeace we had to say below a certan elevation because even with oxygen he could not breath. We spent close to two months at my mothers home. By the time we finaly went home I knew something was wrong. Within a month I had discovered what myself the doctors, and psychologists could only explane as sexual assault. This new sent me spiraling into a case of postpartum depression that scared me to death, and i therefor saught medical help. After my realeace maybe a six months my children where handed to CPS my my own father. Even tho he handed them over they took and made allegations against me of drug use, neglect, lying about the sexual abuse which I had many documents on, and even made a complaint to the police. The body of proof never seen a court room. There was never a drug screen done on me during this case. I was willing to do the drug screen, hair focal testing ( they never did ether), took the same parenting class twice once alone and once with my father and kids. In Jan of 2009 my father was grated full custody of my older children. In March 2009 my youngest daughter was borne. As a result of the case worker from the case which was closed in January made a false report against myself and my youngest child's father. Needles to say CPS came the day of our release and took her. Leaving us for five days without our new borne baby. fortunately we found a rare worker who truly cared. She found the allegations to be unfounded, and found the case which closed in January 2009 to also be unfounded. My youngest still resides with us, and my older children are with my father who will refuse to allow any contact for months on end. I understand you'r pain as I feel it each day. You never really recover, and there is often no real resolution. I have tried to reach out to the news, friends, family, CPS, and a number of other avenues yet I am still without my older two children. It makes being a mother hard when you are graving for children who have been taken from you in such a way.

I am truly sanded to know my family is not the only one suffering such a way

Sarah Ehrman said...

My family has been destroyed by cps in ny state.In 2004 my children were abducted by cps false reports phoned in anonymously because ppl are mad at you not really thinking your kids are abused or negelcted just because they know thats how they can hurt you the most. my 2yr old was molested and got genital warts my sons leg was broken my oldest daughters noe broken.My sweet babies were filthy wearing stained smelly clothes at every visit i would bathe them and hold them and complain to the hillside workers that my kids looked horrible and that i always took care of them.It was heart wrenching i love my babies .eventually a year later they put my kids in another foster home saying it was due to my concerns about their hygene .In this home everything seemed ok even though all i want is my kids to be home. on sept.16,2013 i was allowed by their adopted mom (aka the second foster mom ) to have them for weekends and holidays it was the best day of my life except the days the were born. Everything was going great until my kids start telling how the adopted father was beating them on a regular basis . on jan 18,2014 my 15yr old daughter got dropped off and she was screaming sayin mike punched me in the ribs so i take pics and she starts having trouble breathing so i call an ambulance and we go to hospital where of course cps gets called and i have to tell them what happened . they determine that my kids will be safe with me considering i called the ambulance. i speak with cps they tell me that my kids will be safe at my house i am so happy as are they all we have wanted was to be together again as a family so then on jan24,2014 they take my kids to the child advocacy center (a joke) and when they come back they tell me we gotta take your kidswe cant be sure they are safe here with you wtf they were always safe with me the almost ten yrs in ny state custody the were molested beat verbally abused they keep sayin my kids are disposable wtf my kids are not disposable someone plz help me if you can i need my children they need me

Anonymous said...

I need help my kids were taken with lies and its killing me and my kids. My oldest is in therapy because cps ripped her out of the only home she has ever had and is now not the same girl. None of my kids are. And my youngest was only two months old who is now 9ms and Donno her 4 sisters and barely knows me. It ain't right on what they do to families and I hate them. I never abused my children I would die for them.

pokrov said...

A special petition is developed in order to help the families whose children have been taken away due to falsified accusation by the SPC (Child Protective Services) employees. As more and more families become victims of false accusations against them, we believe that such a petition is necessary in order bring justice in the country. In order to have working material, social service employees need more children to show the government that they need money. Following that goal, they falsify the accusations and take children from normal families. This may happen to any family. The petition will require the corrections in the law so that families and their children can be protected from the crime committed by social service employees.

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Christopher said...

I just wanted to say that sadly, I agree with all of this. I watched my best friend loose her three kids and couldn't do anything to help her. None of us could, and when we told CPS we'd adopt her children so she could still see them constantly, they told us WE weren't good enough. They tried to make some claims like we had to have some huge house just to fit her three kids.

People please, there are tribes out there healthily paid, that have ten people to a living room and that's okay. What just because we're white, and under 30 we can't keep them? People please.

What's worse is they tried to call her "mentally unfit" with almost no evidence other than finding out the mother had been raped by one of the children's fathers, who was thrown out of the house well before CPS even got there. I know, I was there. CPS promised the mom, who was a stay-at-home with 3 children and a working husband(not the ex but another man who took care of all those babies even though only one was his), that if she fought for the kids, she'd have them back in months.

Several months went by and CPS kept changing their tune. Interviewing all of us, though none of us spoke ill of the mother because she is a great person. We all loved her. And we all know that the ANON's that reported, were trouble-makers. One of them was jealous because her "boyfriend" (who left her later go figure), wanted to be with the mother of the 3 kids (and she told him hell no and to get out of her house). Drama started this.

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