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I have had the horrific experience of having to deal with DCYF in Nashua, NH for a little more than two year's. My two daughter's children were taken fraudelently and I was not allowed custody due to false allegation's made my the DCYF attorney, which were proven false in court.

In Nashua, service's are NOT rendered to parent's before the child is taken. They are immediately placed in foster care, even though the real parent object's to the placement. Relative's are not given the option of placement.

I have just finished foster care classes in Nashua, though I do not agree with the teaching's and was totally disgusted by what I heard coming out of the mouth's of the foster care worker's and their teacher's. It was all I could do to sit there and listen to the lie's.

The potential foster parent's were told a child is never taken before service's are provided. Not true. They were told DCYF searche's for relative's before placing a child in foster care. Another lie. They were told the Judge very rarely listen's to DCYF. Another lie. We were told by a caseworker and a DCYF attorney that the Judge does anything DCYF want's. It's true, he does.

Parent's whose children were taken, are made out to be the scum of the earth, no if's and's or but's about it. If their child was taken, they either abused or neglected period. Nothing was mentioned about anyone being falsely accused. I guess those word's are not in their vocabulary. Parent's are so badly smeared, that the potential foster's can't figure out how these horrible parent's are even allowed visit's.

My daughter's were told from the start, that the foster couple's are told not to bond with the children as they may get to go home some day. Foster care class tell's you to bond.

These people are told in class, that they will never be told anything about the parent, because it's confidential. They will only be told about the child. Another lie. DCYF tell's the foster couple anything and everything about your entire family, truth or lie.

I was recently told by Probate court that I can not petition the court to adopt my granddaughter because she's in DCYF custody.

so I signed up for foster care classes. The thing's I heard made me sick, I just wanted to scream and walk out. Then I thought to myself, this is a way I can finally find out the dirt DCYF is feeding these people. So I'm passing on the dirt to you.

One day we will win this horrible fight against the American family and DCYF will get what they deserve.

Unhappy Grammy
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added 2/19/08

I would not lie and go against my daughter's, so they say I'm in denial. Then they told me I was too emotional because I cried for my grandchildren. Then I set up a picket with other grandparent's and parent's whose children were taken, for grandparent's right's. I have also submitted ton's of letter's to Newspaper's, which were printed. Every one of them is in my daughter's files.I've written to the Governor, the DHHS Commissioner, President Bush, State Senator's, State Rep's,The NH Attorney General, the U.S. Attorney General amongst ton's of other people. including the Head Judge for District Court and the Head Judge for Probate Court, not counting all the motion's I've filed for custody and motion's to intervene.

I told them my I Will have my grandchildren before I die. I and my family will never give up.

I was very nice to the Supervisor and the Foster care worker. The Foster care worker smiled as we talked. The Supervisor looked as if someone else sent her to do their dirty work. She looked nervous. I told them I had nothing against either one of them, as they weren't the one's who slandered my family from day one. I also told the Foster care worker that I did not agree with everything they were telling the class, but I kept my mouth shut and just listened. She thanked me for that and told me I should have talked to her before the first class and let her know what was going on. She was nice. But we know about nice. Wolve's in sheep's clothing.


I didn't get mad, I didn't yell. I was very calm. I saw my daughter's caseworker and she saw me. We didn't speak. I know the trick's she played on my daughter to keep her baby. She was clearly working all along for the foster couple to adopt her. Several witnesses overheard her at the courthouse telling the foster couple,"Don't worry there's no guarantee C****'s going anywhere," after she lied to the Judge to stop C***** from going into a court-ordered program. As I was leaving, I told them to have a nice day.

C***** file a complaint with the NH Attorney General against DCYF, her court-appointed puppet, the hospital and the health clinic. The A.G. wrote back and said she has no jurisdiction over any of them. She's a liar! So C***** sent out more complaint's. She is trying to file a federal lawsuit on her own. We don't have the money for a Lawyer. I know if we did, the kid's would be returned.
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