I've been following this blog...

I've been following this blog which is the blog of a foster mother who had to give the kid back to the real mother. This was devastating to her, but those posts are way back in the archives. Since the reunification, the real mother has allowed this foster mother continued contact with the kid. At the same time, this mother is being bashed and criticized on a blog by a person who lives a higher standard for every little move she makes...

http://fosterhood.tumblr.com/post/13155255188/how-the-hell-was-i-supposed-to-know-that-jackets

And she's scheming to get her hands back on the kid...

http://fosterhood.tumblr.com/post/12211648391/one-good-note

I would urge anybody who knows this kid to notify the mother of this blog and of this foster mother's scheme, as well as the states Attorney General's office in regards to her violations of confidentiality laws. However, I doubt that will happen.

http://fosterhood.tumblr.com/post/12180783104/jackets-mom-and-family-are-so-fucked-up-i

And this is why foster caregivers should not have a say, because a foster parent who grows attached to your child can be a real nightmare.