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Friday, January 21, 2011

From Jill

I have a little girl who was severely abused while in the "protective" custody of New Hanover County CPS in Wilmington, NC. They took my children on the basis that my ministry clients posed a danger to my children..in their "opinion". They first placed my youngest daughter with a pedophile at the age of 21 months. A year later, they moved her on an emergency basis due to pending charges against the foster father for indecent liberties with a minor. 6 months later, they placed her with her biological father in spite of having received 2 reports involving minors who said he had tried to have sex with them at ages 11 and 14. The CPS supervisor, Brian Bocnuk accused my other children and I of "conspiring to sabotage the placement" (he included my 6 year old daughter in that accusation). My daughter's biological father was a known alcoholic and "former" crack addict (is there such a thing?), and Bocnuk was also aware of this. The biological father had physical custody of my daughter for 8 months at which point CPS awarded him full, permanent custody and closed the case. Three days later, he abandoned her. I had moved to another county and so I went to the court house and filed for custody and won. Within a month of coming home, my little girl began to disclose the nightmare she had lived when with her father. He beat her feet until they bled, deprived her of food as punishment, forced her to drink alcohol and smoke cigarettes, forced her to perform oral sex, sodomized her; it goes on and on. She now has Post traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) as well as Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). RAD is incurable and she will have trouble forming healthy relationships for the rest of her life as well as needing therapy. Of course, the monsters responsible for the trauma have gotten off scott free mainly because I cannot find an attorney with the balls to sue them. I have a case and I have all of the evidence needed to sue, yet no lawyer I have contacted to date is willing to take on the state of NC. All they will say is that I do have a case, it is a tragedy and they are "so sorry" it happened. HOGWASH!! If any of the spineless ninnies were "sorry" it happened, one of them would take the case!! I am preparing to take my story to the public and speak out against these hellbound people who are stealing children and allowing such horrendous things to happen to them all for the sake of their God - money. It is time for the victims of this system to get a backbone and PUBLICLY expose the FACTS. A web site is not enough. United we stand, divided we fall...famous words. We are divide right now, but it does not have to remain that way. We, the victims MUST unite and PUBLICLY DEMAND JUSTICE!!!!!!!!!

2 comments:

  1. Hi Jill,

    I'm sorry about what your family has been going through. It's good to know that your little girl is back with you. I have some questions so I can better understand your situation.

    What type of ministries are you in that would warrant them taking your children?

    Were they aware that your daughters first placement was a bad placement at the time they put her in the first home?

    Being that the supervisor ignored the 2 reports of child abuse against your ex, what grounds did he use for accusing you and your children of attempting to sabotage the placement of your 6 yr old with her biological father?

    When you changed counties and they gave you back your daughter what made them change their mind? Were the other children back home?

    I certainly feel the way you do, we have to stand together because no one will do it for us. If it were their children I guarantee they would know what it is like to NOT have anyone to represent them because their 'real conflict' is they either don't have the guts, they are 'stakeholders', or both!

    Callie
    www.eafr.us/wordpress

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  2. Anonymous12:34 PM

    Jill, I stand behind you, ready and willing to combat this Terrorism here in New Hanover County by so called Child Protective Services. Yeah, right kids are ripped from their loving homes and then kids are ABUSED once in the system. Families suffer sever trauma.
    My son has been taken twice now and my story is very similar to your as he was abused once he was in the system.
    Sadly, I personally know of five innocent parent who have lost their children to Wimington DSS. They too were threatened, stripped of all of their rights and treated unfairly.
    Please contact me A.S.A.P. if you want to be a part of a class action lawsuit as I have the resources.
    Ask for Kelly 910-279-6322

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