I haven't picked on any foster parent blogs in a while...

So back when I began this journey into LKism, I began reading and picking on the blogs of foster care providers. Some had been "fostering" for a long time.  Others were just beginning their "journey" into the process of getting licensed.   A few were fed up with being railroaded by CPS while others were all holier than thou and were going to save the world from all the evil real parents like you.

What fascinated me about theses blogs is that each post gave me a snap-shot of what that person was thinking at any point in time.  If you read one long enough, you really get to know the person.  You begin to understand what they're thinking, why they get involved, and why so many of them are totally full of shit.

Why is this important?  Because these are the people who CPS is giving your children to and they are not normal.  In fact, some of them are total nut jobs, jealous parent haters and emotional basket cases. Some have emotional issues because they are infertile and want a child so desperately that they'll even consider adopting through foster care.  Then they'll demonize you just to justify getting involved.

So for old time sake, the fact that you all need to know who you are up against, I have decided to go back to my old and evil ways.

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Let us begin with a blog by somebody who calls herself, AdoptMomOf6.  This person has written a blog post entitled...

• When Adoption Isn’t Forever  

which is about a kid who she adopted and who she loves so much although the kid hates her and would rather be with her biological sister.

I remember the times that I would hold my daughter in my arms after a 5 hour rage it didn’t matter that she just ripped her door off of it’s hinges or that she had screamed and cussed and broke things. I held her and I told her that I loved her and that no matter what that even if I was mad at her for what she did that I was her mom forever and when she couldn’t stand me that she was still stuck with me forever…….forever I really meant it and it never crossed my mind that some day she would no longer be my daughter…….at least legally…….

I'm sure that in the beginning this woman simply wanted to love all the troubles away, but now... Oh the pain!  Oh the heartbreak!  Just by reading you can see the excessive attachment issues.   Her friends and family probably got tired of listening to it, so she is forced to express her depression with the world through her blog.  I'm just speculating of course but she certainly isn't the first.  In fact, the more I do this, the more you will see it.

The fact remains that kids would rather be with their families than with these strangers who want to smother them and love all the troubles away.
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Moving on...

Here is an example of one of those people who looks at the world through a pair of Rose Colored Glasses.

• We’re Expecting … Foster Children

In this rather mundane blog post, this woman writes the following paragraph...

These decisions bring me to what I am most looking forward to about 2016: We have started the process to become foster parents. At some uncertain point in the future, we will ultimately adopt someone (or two someones) out of the foster-care system. In the meantime, we’ll provide a home to kiddos who need one. Our home will be licensed for up to two children at a time whose ages could range from birth to 18 years old.

So she is absolutely looking forward to becoming a foster parent.  Why?  The fact that she insinuates adopting through foster care gives away her true motivations.  Boy won't she be surprised when CPS pulls the rug out from under her, eh?  I bet she'll be bawling her eyes out the first time one of the "kiddos" goes home.

Perhaps she'll even blog about it.  Who knows?

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And there you go.  Read, learn, and get to know these people.  If you comment on their blogs, do try to be nice.  I know they're full of shit.  I know they're helping CPS steal children.  

Never the less, when you open your doors to CPS willingly by getting involved or becoming a foster parent, then you're making a deal with the devil.  It's like letting a vampire into your home.  They will suck the life out of you and they can't come in unless you let them, or unless they have a warrant which they usually don't.