Why are special needs families torn apart?

Why are special needs families torn apart?

Why does this inhumane way of treating parents of special needs children still exist? Whoever decided parents of special needs children should have their parental rights taken away in order to receive the overdue and much-needed services our children need? Not only does it make a parent feel like they did something wrong when they ask for help, but if our children could speak for themselves I'm sure they would wonder why the government would tear apart a family in need rather than put a plan in place to take care of our them.