SystemSuckology and that nut over at Foster2Forever.com

SystemSuckology is the philosophical study of the psychology and moral/ethical view of the the System Suck.  It is an attempt to answer various questions such as: How can these people sleep at night?  How do these people think?  How do they view themselves?  And most importantly how they justify their actions by judging you, the real parents of the children in question.  Typically, these judgement's are based on the mouth of the CPS Agent who is overseeing the case.

The System Suck, being defined as anybody who benefits from the system including any profiting lawyer, shrink, foster parent or service provider as well as any desperate to adopt infertile who feels incomplete as a woman because of her inability to breed crossed with an unhealthy obsession with joining the mommy crowd, thus causing her to feel entitled to the children of others based upon their imperfections as a parent and thereby with a complete lack of empathy for the real parent who lost their child.  And to tell you the truth, they don't give a hoot as to how you feel about it.  You are monsters.  You f****d up.  That's why they have your child so too bad for you.

In other words, not every person in this is trying to benefit financially from all of this.  There are those who want your child of their very own to have and to hold, to hug and to squeeze and to call George or Veronica or what have you.  These people are much less likely to want to do the right thing for the child because their agenda is to become parents which can often conflict with the desire of the real parents to get their kids back once they fall in love with your child who is in their care at that moment in time.



There is one person (a foster blogger) out there who is the epitome of all of this.

In her latest blog post for example, that parent hating nut over at Foster 2 Forever describes how she decided to play God by refusing the placement of the biological sibling of one of her stolen children, thus forcing the kids brother to grow up in a different family, forever.  And because another family is now the proud parents of somebody elses stolen kid, they can all live happily ever after.

http://foster2forever.com/2013/08/brothers-adopted.html

How cold and heartless can these foster frauds be?  Well...  Lets examine this.

In her blog post, Penelope calls her decision not to take the biological baby brother of one of her stolen children one of the most "heart wrenching decisions" she's ever had to make, then she lists her excuses for refusing the second kid, naming age and her inability to deal with more children. Fortunately, further on down in the post, all is made better because Penelope approves of her stolen child's brother's adoptive parents.  The only mention of the real parents is that they took the real baby away too.  So we don't know if the parents did anything to fix this or not.  The real parents, of course, are the villain in her version of this story which is her justification for the whole thing.

Then they say we'll let you visit occasionally, to try to make it look all better to her readers.  This probably being based on the convenience of or some demographic of the adopting parents but certainly at their current ages, they will not understand that they are actually brothers being kept apart.  It's also probably a heartless promise with no real intention of going beyond the occasional play-date schedule of the 'nomadic interfile yuppies' who like Matt and Melanie Capobianco, would stoop to the lowest possible levels to get their hands on your kid of their very own.

It's bad enough that they justify their personal acquisition of stolen children by passing judgement onto the real parents based on the ranting and ravings of the nice social worker, who is actively working to convince the gullible that they are angels by repeatedly telling them what they want to hear, including what a monster the real parent is, but come on...  These are siblings. Brothers! Real brothers who should be given every opportunity to grow up together as God intended by having them come into the world via the same mother and possibly father. It's bad enough to separate them from the parents but to separate them from each other is perhaps the lowest thing you can possibly do.

But you are evil so they are justified.  They are the heroes in the story.

So if you are not blocked because you made some accurate comment critical of this real parent hater's views then your best bet would be to copy and paste the link into your browser instead of clicking on it which will get you a "stop harassing me" message.  And if for whatever reason you are unable to view this page, let me know and I'll send you the copy.

http://foster2forever.com/2013/08/brothers-adopted.html

http://foster2forever.com/2011/11/baby-brother.html