Friday, August 24, 2012

From A Grandmother

The following was submitted to the new form.  The person asked to keep her name private, and that request will always be respected.  No exceptions.  Any advice would be appreciated and can be left in the comment section.
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I truly hope you will help us.  My daughter, had two boys, one 7 and one 4.  She wasn't a good mom abusive, druggie. Children's Services in Reno, NV took them from her.  My other daughter, went through all the processes required to take the boys into her home in Oregon.  Every thing was going fine, the boys were happy.  Until they got a new case worker and my daughter got pregnant.  For some reason made life very hard for her & the father of the new baby.  Yet he is always there for her and  He went through the classes they requested. The worker said he didn't finish the classes.  He has the certificate, no one has checked. They functioned as a family, went fishing, to the fair, crabbing, camping, but this case worker has made it sound like the boys are being abused.  She would misconstrue what the boys would say and only ask negative questions. She got them taken away from my daughter.  Neither NV or OR followed up on these accusations.  Now they are going to strangers in Reno.

No one has talked to anybody in OR, (a town where you can throw a rock from one end to the other) where my daughter and the boys lived.  No one has talked to the boys teachers, friends, even the state appointed councilor about these accusations. The  parents of the boyfriend, sent Reno a letter and told them he had a job and was living with them (per OR request) and they ignored it.  Lots of friends called OR and NV telling them how the boys have flourished since living there. Reno has chosen to ignore these too.  Please help us.  

Now the boys are back in Reno and they said that my daughter can't have them back, these boys are crying for their Mom.  This to me is child abuse.  The boys want to go home, they want to see their baby sister.  Now they are saying they will take away my Grandma rights because I'm fighting them on this.  Please, please help us.

2 comments:

  1. Sheryl7:35 AM

    I recently wrote a letter of complaint about the treatment I received when dealing with 3 Nevada DCFS workers.

    If you send a copy of the letter to Harry Reids office, they will forward it to the Carson City Nevada Department of DCFS. That way the letter comes from Senator Reids office.

    Also send a letter to Gov. Sandovals Office. They will forward it to The Systems Advocate of DCFS (Krystal Main).

    This will at least get the DSFS workers names listed with a complaint and someone at the Systems Advocates office should call for more details and do an investigation.

    How will it all work out? Not sure, but if we all let DCFS bully and manipulate families...then the system will never get better and more families will suffer lie we have.

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  2. hazel tucker8:47 AM

    Help and support is available. Go to nfpcar.org and click on "What you can do" near the top of the page. Then, at the bottom of the 'What you can do' page enter your email and then click the 'join Yahoo groups' button and follow the directions. In the comment section just state that you are the grandmother from today's "Legally Kidnapped." Your message will come to me and I will immediately approve you. If you have any trouble getting signed up, contact me at my personal email and I'll help you get it done.
    hazeltucker08@gmail.com

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