When a foster caregiver doesn't get their way...

They get "pissed."

http://fosterparentingadventures.blogspot.com/2011/07/permanency-hearing-is-over.html

In this case a foster parent is not happy about the results of a permanency hearing. She was hoping that the judge would just cut the real mother off, move for termination of parental rights, so that they could move forward with the adoption.

But thanks to a judge who wanted to give the real mother another chance, the real mother gets a few more months to get her shit together.

http://fosterparentingadventures.blogspot.com/2011/07/what-i-learned-about-behind-scenes-at.html

Now I've been following this particular blog for well over a year. Truly, this is one of the most creative parent bashers I've ever seen. She simply does not want to give this mom a chance. Why? Because she wants to adopt. It doesn't matter if it's the right thing or the wrong thing. Oh sure, she'll tell you that she is whats best for that kid. You don't even have to ask, just read the last few posts on her blog. Then you'll understand why it's a good thing that foster parents don't have a say in these sorts of issues. Because once they've fallen in love with your kid, they can be a real parents worst nightmare.