Monday, May 24, 2010

How to Contact Your Stolen Children Later In Life

A recent article originally published on the biased and comment censoring guardian.co.uk, entitled Adopted children face anguish as birth parents stalk them on Facebook has irritated the family rights people in England. And rightfully so.

In this obvious example of parent bashing, the Guardian tells us that...
Adoption agencies are reporting huge numbers of calls from "deeply distressed" adoptive parents whose children have been contacted out of the blue.
Based on stuff like this happening...

But the agencies warn that the existing rules protect often extremely vulnerable children. Where once adoption tended to involve a young, single woman giving up her unplanned baby, now two-thirds of adopted children have been removed because their parents abused or neglected them. In many cases, the birth parents dispute the removal, blaming social services. One message sent to a child given up some years ago for adoption read: "Hello, I'm your birth father. I have been searching for you ever since you were stolen by social services. You look beautiful. I love you so much."

Our beloved Alison Stevens wrote the following response to the editor...

Dear Sir
With reference to the article that was highlighted in today's Guardian newspaper portraying adoption and social networking sites and parents trying to find information about their children, i am very concerned that these anguished parents have been highlighted in a negative manner, as well as Parents Against Injustice, a National Organization, that is well respected within Parliament.
I spent quite a lot of time e-mailing PAIN clients, with regards to this issue, to take part in this cause and am very disappointed with the outcome of today's report in the Guardian.
Many of these Parents have suffered miscarriages of Justice and forced adoption, by the unfairness of the secret family courts and this article, just adds to their misery. Many of my clients have been vindicated by the courts and Social Services, but have had their children wrongly taken into care. We have had the tragedy's of Sally Clark, now deceased, Angela Canning and the horrors of Cleveland, to highlight the tragedies involved, the newspaper on one occasion, mentions my ex co worker, it depicts his surname only, he is not a criminal, just a loving father that has lost his children to a corrupt system.
In this case he has had his name vindicated by the family court, and Social Services.
Kind regards Alison Stevens Parents Against Injustice www.parentsagainstinjustice.org.uk
And she said it better than I ever could have.

Now although this article was obviously written based on the generous information provided by system sucks such as the good old folks over at the adoption agency, one could simply look at it another way.
Mother and daughter reunite after 33 years

Jessica Jakel couldn't stop shaking with excitement, as she waited for her birth mother's arrival at Sky Harbor Airport. She grew up in an abusive family, and when she was seven-years-old she was sent to foster care. Throughout her life Jakel has been praying for her mother and searching for her on facebook. On her 40th birthday this past January, she got the surprise of her life- a short message from mom, saying "Happy Birthday."
Or how about this...

I found out I had 15 brothers and sisters… on Facebook!

Teenager Sophie Featherstone thought she was all alone in the world after her beloved granny died. And then out of the blue, an email arrived.
So you see, for some it is a curse, and for others it is a glimmer of hope.

And so, how do you contact your stolen children later in life? All you have to do is a search on Facebook. Of course it's not 100%, and there is no guarantee that they will want contact, but in many cases, they do.

So let the adoptive parents of your stolen children piss and moan. Let the guardian.co.uk post it's biased and parent bashing bullshit. Here is a new tool, at your disposal.

All is fair and love and war.

L(¨`•.•´¨) Light ?
O`•.¸(¨`•.•´¨) Joy & ?
V¨`•.•´¨)¸.•´ Blessings ?
E`•.¸.•´

LK

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