"I looked up this case. I know this worker. This worker is more bio family oriented then myself, giving parents more chances to get things together then I would,"
OMG.. THIS IS PERFECT! "...(and by the way, often I give the birth parents enough rope to hang themselves by letting the case take its course. Then there is no question at the end of the case, nothing that the parents can appeal,e tc)
I just had a team meeting where foster parent was mad at perspective adoptive parent. Bio family has sided with foster parent as they don't want anyone adopting their child. Adoptive parent pushed the issue and I've been trying to tell them to just hold on, don't make waves, don't antagonize people. They aren't even licensed yet, so the child couldn't be placed with them even if I wanted to today. Once they are licensed the child will be placed with them full time. So please, please, please don't fight over visits right now. The bio family has demanded visits on the days you wanted the child, but eventually their rights will be terminated and we won't even have to have this conversation. Meanwhile foster parents, bio family, etc get a nasty feeling towards the potential family and it makes everything much, much harder.
Oh boy I've been on a rant. Don't even let me get started on visits."
THIS IS PERFECT.. IT EXPLAINS IT FROM THE EYES OF THE ONES WHO DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THE BIO PARENTS.. THEY WANT SEE THEM HUNG, THEY WANT TO EASE THE WAY TO ADOPTION! http://amiablyme.wordpress.com Sandra Ami
OMG.. THIS IS PERFECT! "...(and by the way, often I give the birth parents enough rope to hang themselves by letting the case take its course. Then there is no question at the end of the case, nothing that the parents can appeal,e tc)
ReplyDeleteI just had a team meeting where foster parent was mad at perspective adoptive parent. Bio family has sided with foster parent as they don't want anyone adopting their child. Adoptive parent pushed the issue and I've been trying to tell them to just hold on, don't make waves, don't antagonize people. They aren't even licensed yet, so the child couldn't be placed with them even if I wanted to today. Once they are licensed the child will be placed with them full time. So please, please, please don't fight over visits right now. The bio family has demanded visits on the days you wanted the child, but eventually their rights will be terminated and we won't even have to have this conversation. Meanwhile foster parents, bio family, etc get a nasty feeling towards the potential family and it makes everything much, much harder.
Oh boy I've been on a rant. Don't even let me get started on visits."
THIS IS PERFECT.. IT EXPLAINS IT FROM THE EYES OF THE ONES WHO DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THE BIO PARENTS.. THEY WANT SEE THEM HUNG, THEY WANT TO EASE THE WAY TO ADOPTION!
http://amiablyme.wordpress.com
Sandra Ami
Yeah, she's a piece of work.
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