Let's say, for example, that you're a cop. You want to go to normal people parties. And lets say, hypothetically, that you get invited to one. So you're there, having a good time and all of a sudden, God forbid, that somebody sparks up a joint. What are you gonna do? Remind them to the fact that you're a cop and they're committing a crime? That would kind of make you a party pooper, wouldn't it?
Anyway, I want to thank our beloved do-gooder SocialWrkr24/7 for the following link.
Article: Social Workers Tend to Befriend Other Social Workers
Which of course leads us to the following article...
Friends with colleagues only: Teachers, cops and others find only their peer group 'gets it'
Which is about people in various authoritative or professional positions have a hard time socializing with normal people. Thus leading to my, LK's, thoughts on why nobody wants to be friends with self-proclaimed do-gooders, and people like that.
I think that the answer is quite simple really. Nobody wants to be friends with you because you all suck. You all sit there and preach your self-righteous goodie goodie bullshit and nobody wants to listen to it. We got enough of our own problems and often times these problems are caused by people like you. So now you cry about not having any friends except for other people like you. "Oh the people don't accept us. Oh, society shuns us." Oh boo hoo. What did you all expect? Some of you have the power to throw us in jail. Others have the power to snatch our kids, and according to people like you, we dig our own holes anyway.
You see, normal people get together and do things like talk about their families or kids. They get together and discuss problems that they've had. Seek advice from their peers, etc. I'm sure that it would be very uncomfortable to have people who work in various professions hanging out. And you get all wigged out because they expect your expert opinion.
Normal people get together and talk about their jobs. And what would you all have to talk about in conversations like that? Bad people? Bad parents? Speeders and psycho's? Tumors? I mean, you're such a downer.
Every mother has joked "Oh my god I was ready to kill him" at least once while raising children, and you people can't see it for the figure of speech that it is, jump to conclusions and claim that she's gonna literally kill the kid, and all of you do-gooders out there are mandated to report any what??? Does that only go for when you're on the clock?
So why would anybody want you in their social circle?
Duh!
Philosophically speaking, ones personal identity is usually associated with what they do. So if you're a social worker, you're expected to be a social worker 24-7 by default. I fix computers, what you don't think I get people asking me to help them out? If you're a cop, people are going to introduce you as a cop. And believe me, I don't know anybody who brags about having a friend whose a social worker.
And lets say, for example, that you're a child protective worker. You're married, have kids and want a somewhat normal life outside of work. Do you honestly believe that other parents are going to want you to attend their kids play-groups? What if they made a mistake. What if their kid gets a boo boo?
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